She would have to have a perfect body everywhere else. Meaning huge boobs, skinny, and proportional. And even then it's more like a borderline 7. But I happen to be more of boobs man also

Skinny is usually not attractive on girls

cosign

I feel most non-black guys would disagree.

this tangent sux

It is unusual that as a social recluse you would just volunteer your real life photo for no apparent reason on an internet message board.

No.

Most of us do.

Fair point

So been on 3 dates so far. All of them were cool girls. Will probably try to set up seconds with 2 of them(definitely trying with lul school chick, she still top prospect). Also got a few more girls from OKC in the farm system. May have to bring a couple to the majors.

So as mentioned earlier I dont have a car, and this has came up on every date, but since everyone I have gone on dates with so far lives in Austin it isnt a big deal. However 2 of the 3(the other didnt even bring a car to date), volunteered to drive me back after the date. This is obviously a good sign right? They knew I could easily get back through bus/car2go but yet they still volunteered. In terms of interest how strong of a sign is this from 1-10(10 being she wants the D right now obv). I have never been in a position before where I didnt have a car after a date so i dont know if they are simply being polite/nice/following protocol or because they were having fun and like me.

Also kissing in a car on the first date is awkward. Nuff said.

You don't have a car?

I mean, really ?

I don't have one neither, just sold it last winter and doing perfectly fine without one ! How do you go on a date with a car anyway, don't you guys drink ?

Yak it's murica though, you can't do anything without a car in all but a handful of cities.
Was staying in a hotel legit 500 meters from our offices, decided to walk one morning cause f it I'm European, people looked at me like I was a hobo...

I would give it about a 4. It basically just shows that she in general had a good time and feels comfortable with you, but I wouldn't read that much into it; it's mostly just being polite. It's a bit of a different situation here because no one drives, but for me it is pretty common to walk with someone to the train station and wait with them if you are biking or walking home. It doesn't say that much except that the date was pleasant.

It ranges from 0 to 2. Most of the time it's polite/pity drive back home. Any guy who's harmless and semi-normal would get this, and I'm pretty sure you come across as harmless going by statements like this:
and the fact that you don't have a car.

How old are you? The younger you are, the better a sign it is (younger girls are less responsible/concerned for others & more afraid of unfamiliar situations).

Why u hatin brah ? (do you even lift?) Pity drive back home ? LOL.

It obviously ranges somewhere from +-4-10. Making out in a car is one of the nut worst things I know unless nobody is around and there are no boundaries.

Spent the last 24 hrs+ with YC. She crashed at my place Saturday night, we did breakfast, lunch, normal Sunday stuff together, and dinner. Got a HJ, no happy ending, she took a bath at my place, and I got tipsy and called CL while she was napping in my bed. She's definitely confused by my "laissez faire," I don't give a **** approach to dating but, for whatever reason, can't seem to get enough of me. At this point our comfort level is at a point where I can jokingly say I'm going to stick it in her ass and blow it in her face and she mock laughs then punches me in the gut. Saturday dinner was interesting - there was a black woman hostess and she and YC totally had this black woman bonding thing going on, complimenting each others appearance and clothes. As we left and I helped YC put on her jacket, I caught the other lady with the biggest smile on her face ever and sort of batting her eye lashes at me. Probably figured "girl friend" was in good hands and that I'm not some psycho.

So CL told me Thursday that one of my "red flags" is that I may be too needy (along with anger issues and alcoholism). When I spoke with her yesterday I explained that her thinking so put me in an awkward spot, specifically how can I feel comfortable about calling her or wanting to make plans with her while also concerned that the act itself may come off as needy? She kind of put some parameters around it which smoothed it over a bit. She also mentioned that my past struggles with alcoholism made her "hesitant." I told her that that sucked and it makes me somewhat regret being open and honest about it, that I probably should not have told her as I apparently don't stand to benefit.

That all sounds miserable.

Which one? Both? Kinda annoying that she hangs around all the time but she does do her own thing quite often. Odd LT girl friend experience. The upshot is she jerked me off to completion this AM. The downside is she says she made her last bf wait 2 months for sex.

I say, wait till she gives it up, have candlelight dinner, NOT **** her in the end and make her wait for it.

Does this sound like a healthy relationship to you?

'It's a red flag to me that you're too needy"
"Now I'm concerned I may come off as needy just being normal"
"Let me put some parameters around that"
"I regret being open with you if you're going to use it against me"

That's Woody Allen material. And you're not even getting any.

Look, every woman has a way to get in there, even the ones playing games. It's up to you to figure it out, or suffer.

Yah no kidding. I think he'll cave though.

You spend all this time together and get HJs with no happy ending? If you're really in love with someone and she makes you wait a long time for sex, then ok I get it. But you're calling the other girl who won't sleep with you while this one is taking naps in your bed..

Also, that disgusting thing you jokingly said to her is something that you shouldn't ever say to anyone, let alone a girl who you're holding out for. And btw it's not really something I want to read either. Not that you're the only one posting stuff like that. I've got nothing against a crude joke or talking about sex, but just WTF. Who talks like that? You really say that to a girl you're interested in?

And then all the CL drama.. I mean, what are you getting out of all this? It's just kind of sad to read.

LOL this only works in sitcoms. You can't play the "hold out" game with a woman. They win that one every time.

He's right.