Story from college that shows that A) girls who date online can be hot and B) girls who date online are kinda crazy.
Party at my house junior year. Some really cute blonde girl is there, came with a friend of a friend. Eventually the cops show up and I walk outside the house to make sure everyone is sober driving because they'd get insta DUI'd. She comes out, we chat, I get her number but don't get her name.
Buddy of mine who used to do tons of online dating calls me the next day and tells me that girl I was talking to has a match.com profile(2003-2004ish). I check it out, it has her AIM name on it, so I IM her hoping to figure out wtf her name is for future reference. She tells me she bartends, I go hang out at the bar at her restaurant one night. We date for a little while after.
I basically begin to realize that this girl is insanely out of my league. I'm not an ugly guy, but every time this girls opens her mouth she just spews some totally badass detail about herself. Probably 5'6, 120. Huge fitness freak. Did competitive gymnastics as a kid, cheered in college at a D1 school for a year. She's pre-med, makes awesome grades. Loves sports, loves cars, and talks about sex basically non stop. I basically start trying to figure out what the **** is wrong with her and she starts dropping some minor bombs.
She's never had a boyfriend(she's 20), yet we've talked about sex fairly extensively. She has almost no female or male friends, and not just does she not have many friends, she seems to have LOTS of enemies. Her family situation is totally messed up. Doesn't speak to Mom or Dad, pays her way through medical school. She's insanely drama ridden(even more so than the average girl) and will literally call me 7-8 times a day with the most insignificant issues ever, then each time we talk when she's done with her issue she very quickly ends the call as if I'm keeping her from something important. She refuses to eat in front of any other people so we can never go out to eat or to a bar to hang out. She's always super depressed about not having a boyfriend or girl-friends to hang out with, yet never seems to be interested in hanging out. During the month we date she twice comes to hang out(totally excited) and then randomly gets WASTED and leaves without anyone knowing and drives like 30 minutes through major traffic to get home, both times ****ing up her car with minor damage.
I kind of start to shy away because I think I'm going into friend zone, and eventually she just drop dead stops calling me. I'm kind of sad because she was insanely hot and I was kind of going through a phase where I wasn't necessarily looking for something serious. I assumed I came on too strong because that's how I interpreted what was going on, and moved on.
I run into her a year or two later and we chat for a while as if nothing happened. She basically apologizes to me for disappearing and tells me that's just what she does. She meets guys, likes them, latches onto them, and then runs away as fast as she can. She's done it with every guy she's dated for 5 years and every girl-friend she's had since high school. She knows she does it, and just can't stop.
And yeah...she's a doctor now. I googled her name a while back and she had a few profiles on dating sites. So, there ya go. Go get her.
Last edited by ZBTHorton; 12-08-2012 at 01:57 AM.