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Originally Posted by Brown Gord
Yeah your goals seem to be not fulfilling what you really might need, which is to look at how you interact in meeting a girl and developing any potential.
What are your most meaningful few goals in dating right now?
You're not out of line, but I don't know how useful this is. I don't really think it's helpful to be defining definite goals (unless you are
only looking for a casual relationship, in which case I think you should be honest with any girl about this).
It's like saying "I want to win $X this month at poker"....play hours, not results, right?
I.e. I can pretty easily define for myself how much time I will spend dating, since I have more opportunities for first dates than I can actually go on, but it seems counterproductive to set goals over things I have much less control over.