I'm terrible with texting, both getting upset if someone doesn't text me back within what I think is a polite amount of time, and also not keeping it light; discussing things in text that should be left for face to face conversations.
I was pathetic on the first issue in my last relationship and if I didn't get upset about it, we may still be together now. We had a huge argument at the end because I got fed up of silent treatment after an earlier small argument, which turned it into a bigger, end game argument with things said on both sides that were out of place, as we got on well up to then. There was usually an explanation each time she didn't get back to me, which, afterwards each time I believed she was being honest about, but with my personality and baggage I was paranoid and oversensitive about each time it was happening instead.
It didn't help that she was sharing a room with her sister at the time, and we had to text all the time instead of call each other. She then sometimes swapped her phone with her sister too.. because apparently that's what you do when you both don't have insurance and keep breaking phones. Still I could have not been a pussy and been cool with it regardless, and worked on the issue about it in my head, which I already accepted as a problem I have.
In my relationship previous to this last one, jealousy was a problem for me and caused damage (from the belief that very few people can be faithful, and not trusting a girl at all because of that), and I consciously dealt with it and improved on it a lot for this next one, but now from this relationship one lesson is not to be stupid about texts, and be cool about them whatever. If someone is really bad I can politely say it bothers me.
Going forward I'm going to try to be as about texting/ anyone getting back to me (whether it's a couple of dates or LTR) as I can and based on my improvement with jealousy I think I can improve on that fine too. People have different ideas in their heads about texting/communicating and that's it.
This post is overly long because I spent way too much time checking grammar, spelling and flow, then added too much when doing those checks. That's why I usually leave smaller but more rambling posts fyi
Last edited by Jamerc81; 09-18-2013 at 07:30 PM.