Since I'm a chick, and very candid, I'd be willing to give you guys some advice. I've been happily married for a long time. I met my husband online in a non-romantic way when I wasn't even looking.
I will be brutally honest with ya's. But at least you won't have to worry about some skank giving you advice.
Biggest caveat, though. If you ask for pics or 'pics or GTFO,' you're gonna get the one of my chest a couple of weeks after my mastectomy