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Originally Posted by CalledDownLight
Yea. This. I ended up eating a second dinner because of that. I felt like it would have been far less acceptable for me to say i had already had dinner and declined than to just eat again and suck it up so i did the latter. I also knew it wasn't a girl I was interested in within the first 10 min tops and this was guaranteed to add 30-60 min to the date depending on how much we talked afterwards.
If I hadn't eaten then I would have wanted food and would have been glad she was hungry.
Garcia was doing an over-worked joke, as per usual, he doesn't actually think I have reading comprehension issues.
You honestly think it would have been far less acceptable to sit there quietly enjoying a short laugh and drink with someone you may not be attracted to than to sit there fuming because her unmentioned religion, accent and hunger levels were not exactly what you
assumed? Your attitude is exactly what I have a problem with.
You'd think 2+2 would be populated with slightly more sensitive/tuned in people because of the rationality factor but instead it just leads to dullard dudes that are 6s acting as if they're 9s (which is ironically what most of us accuse online girls of doing) with an obscure and arbitrary list of demands despite a boring, ****ty attitude.
For the record the cake thing was her offering you an opening to show interest, not some ridiculous girlie demand. Much like Tyler on his threesome date, there's ways to make it obvious that you're not paying for interlopers without coming across like a dick or a doormat.