Ugh, kind of in an awkward spot (Or maybe I just messed it up a while ago). So went on two dates with this girl kind of far apart in May and June as she was pretty busy with work and having some friends visit. Dates went well, but no real physical escalation (one was beers and frisbee in the park, the second karaoke... both on weeknights when she had to work early the next day). I went back to the US for two weeks and when I came back chatted with her on OKC chat for about an hour. At the end I asked if she wanted to grab a drink to celebrate her work promotion, then she said that she was busy that week and then visiting her parents the next week. As we were saying goodbye she mentioned "sorry I'm busy the next few days, don't take it personally." Basically, at the time, I took the whole thing as a semi blow-off and was in the mode of not contacting her but being open to her maybe contacting me when she got back in town.
So that last contact was 2 months ago. Tonight at midnight got a text from her:
"
my name I've been meaning to tell you: I stole your idea and invited my friends to karaoke to celbrate my birthday... they loved it! It was an awesome night. I've been meaning to tell you. Hope all is well. Can't believe summer is over
. But my annual leave is coming up!
her name"
Basically wondering if I should have tried contacting her a couple of weeks after the IM convo (obv now water on the bridge, but for future such circumstances). And what is the read on the random text message tonight? Was she always just waiting for me to contact her and just now got around to it? Seeing someone else and that faltered and now I'm a backup plan? I was kind of into this girl at the beginning (she is super cool, the only thing missing was a romantic spark) but I also have had some other things going on so not super desperate to go chasing.