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Originally Posted by mashoo
Okay so make short chit chat about the games this weekend and then ask her for her number?
If you want to continue chatting, I'd pick a different topic from football since you already touched on that one. At most say something like "cool, i'm jealous of your season tix" or w/e and change gears to another topic.
Underrated pro tip: you're better off saying 1 sentence each about 20 different conversation topics than 4 sentences each about 5 different topics. Feels more spontaneous and you get to know the person better.
I'd suggest experimenting with asking for the # sooner vs later. I do it on the first message, but I also make it clear that I think that online chatting is lol so it feels natural. I don't know how important that detail is, I suppose it's not huge but ya never know.
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Originally Posted by wutangpoker
Messaging chicks who say they are looking for friends or activity partners- worth it? The corollary: what about chicks whose profiles say they are seeing someone?
afaict the girls in relationships are just there to attention whore it up so lol them. I wouldn't waste any time trying to think of a clever icebreaker for them.