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Originally Posted by mashoo
Message a girl, she replies and asks why I messaged her. Blah blah about profile but then I add that since you love football I definitely had to message you. She messages back saying she had season tickets with her dad and played flag football over the summer. I'd like to give my number in this reply so do I ask her if she'd like to watch the games at a bar or should I go with something more generic and give my number? need advice on what my play should be.
1) It's standard for the guy to get the girl's number and do the calling/texting from there
2) Watching football games is a risky first date. Maybe she only casually enjoys football and embellishes how much she likes it since she thinks it will help get her attention. Imo first date should always be something simple and cheap like coffee (I used to do drinks but coffee is so much cheaper and I really don't give a **** whether booze is involved or not.)
A few years ago I texted this girl I had met at a bar back and forth for a bit trying to arrange a date. One night she asked me what I was doing and I told her I was going to watch game 7 of the Red Sox-Rays series at a Sox bar and she could come by if she liked. I had no idea whether she liked baseball but she was from MA, so I figured it was possible she'd actually be interested and if not she'd decline. Then she showed up 100% dressed for a date and never even looked at the TV's. I kinda kept one eye on the game and the other on her and did a kickass job pretending to listen, but it was a lol date. I guess I should note she was kinda ******ed, but the vibe wasn't romantic at all, and it wasn't a fun experience.
Fortunately I was able to get a better date w/ her later, but the only sports date I would do now is like take a girl to a Knicks game and plan to not pay close attention to the game. But I'd wait until at least the 3rd or so date for that.
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Originally Posted by OnThInIcE911
lol a million dudes just checked my profile.
Hit me up on skype one of these days and I'll elitify your profile