ITT, Diablo takes a charitable view...

Of course not, she owes me money, I want it back. It's actually 150 dollars due to gas money when I picked her up from Orlando, she agreed on this. My cousin also thought her behavior was outrageous and wanted to address that. But she's not going there to get into fisticuffs with her, that's ridiculous. I think when the girl sees I have someone in the city who's going to help me collect the debt she'll be more likely to cough up the money.

Oh, and she's still in FL. Flight leaves at 6PM tonight.

What happened here Sandra ? Afraid of lurkers from google ? :O

@amazin, youre not driving her there are you ?

Amazin,

Would you have let the money slide had she ****ed you?

Yes.

I'd also let it slide had she spent the whole trip with me and we legitimately had a good time.

Sandra,

Nobody's actually searching for "online dating thread."

If it comes up for tips, advice, help, etc - then it might be something to worry about if you're easily identified. But not "thread."

Fortunate thread naming, perhaps!

She's still theeeeeeeere? OH GAWD. I thought she took off.
Also, maybe forget about the money if you don't get it back?

Dating is just expensive all around. It is a painful lesson, but money != sexy times even when implied or expected. I know you feel played and we're all bitter about her asshattery on the trip, but there are new hats to try on. Hopefully with more modest drink choices and looser morals.

#TeamAmazin

Amazin,

Then you should just let it go. You had a girl come visit you, not a whore.

Jenni,

I was pretty team amazin until the last few posts. Now I'm starting to seriously consider that it may have been less of her being a bitch and more of her trying to escape amazin making her feel really uncomfortable about the whole situation.

Who even knows if the bimbo is really leaving? She has a GF who lives in Bradenton, she could probably stay there.

Yeah, this. We've all dropped money on dates and not gotten anywhere with the girl but we don't demand she pay us back. Just gotta take it, shake it off, and move on

Who cares? Do what you should have done a few days ago and move on from this fiasco. LOL at sending your female cousin to get the gas money she owes you. Is she gonna chase her around on her bike?

Sly,

I want my two (hundred) dollars!

Also, Seymour isn't getting that money back no matter what anyway. It's just not worth worrying about.

Logged onto my dormant Match profile a couple of days ago. A really cute school teacher emailed me, she seems very interested. I might actually grow some balls and actually go on a date for once. The weird thing is that I have virtually none of the desired qualities listed on her profile:

* She wants a man aged between 25-29. I'm 22.
* She wants a 'confident and ambitious professional'. I made it clear in my profile that I am a bewildered graduate unsure of the future.
* She wants a man who goes to the gym a lot. I'm just a skinny bloke who doesn't lift a thing (this is clear in my pics).

I must have one hell of a sexy face.

Amazin is just too thirsty and desperate. Been telling him that all thread. Everyone will pick up on this. He managed to learn the few messages to get a girl into it online but still hasnt realised what he needs to work on on himself.

And the girl was clearly dtf. I agree with whoever said its not the girls fault but amazin ****ed it up.

The girl was clearly an ******* but i think she would still have screwed him if he hadn't messed up. It might have been the boob fondling. I have no idea how one would go about doing that in a non-weird way

Im not aware of any history but maybe cut the guy some slack, I mean, Im guessing most of us arnt here to brag about how awesome everything is going and how much we rock at getting them panties off ? Live and learn amazin, gl next time!

oh. **** the money. just let this be a lesson in how to treat people.

Maybe you should try to forcefully take the money of her next time you're feeling her up

Opinions on my messaging game? The opener is one of 3 canned openers I use. There are just way too many attractive girls in Montreal to craft individual messages to, so it's easier to wait until they reciprocate interest. She wrote things in her profile about loving Rudy/The Notebook and reading Twilight "but don't judge me for it". My 2nd message is kinda long, but seems like she's keen so once I get a 2nd response I plan on asking her out to drinks with my next message.

Here's my profile if you care to see what I wrote in it that was provoking her responses: www.okcupid.com/profile/WontRegretThis
Feel free to pass along a 5 star rating too so I can keep seeing hotties in my matches. Merci beaucoup!

I have to admit that this internet dating experience has at least been good for a few laughs. I have gotten some pretty crazy messages so far. I can only imagine what it must be like for you. Did you have any idea that there were this many strange people in Montréal?

I have some pretty amusing stories so far. How about you? Anything yet that made you laugh or are you just getting the standard, "Your really hot" messages (of course they use the wrong "your")?

Make it a great day!
XXX

Hi XXX,

I am very interested to hear about the crazy messages you have received so far on this site. I can understand what you might be going through as I too, have received some interesting ones as well.

How do you like Montreal so far? Where in the states are you coming from? I read your profile and you wrote that you also lived in New Zealand. That's great! Traveling is by far one of the most exciting and empowering things, I just wish I could do it more often.

Yoga 5 times a week... Good for you. I wish I could get into yoga more but haven't gotten there yet. I love going to the gym but don't find that I'm very good at yoga so haven't done too much of it lately. Perhaps I will go to a class today... We will see. Maybe your profile (which I agree was well written) has inspired me to do some yoga. I will let you know. Hahaha.

Anyhow, I hope you have a good day.

XXX

Hey XXX,

What the heck, how can you tease that you've got some interesting stories and then not share one?! Okay, I'll go first. I've gotten a few messages from "cougars"...I guess my preppy, white boy look fits their eye. There was one who I told twice I wasn't interested and then she messages "ok, but could you at least send a picture of you vacuuming in your underwear?" The weird thing is, after I sent the pic she didn't even respond.

Montreal is a blast, I feel like there's so much to do, yet not enough Summer left to accomplish it all. Are you from Montreal? I'm from the state of Nebraska (cue silence on your part), it's a nice state, but rather boring and the people don't show much interest in travel. New Zealand is incredible, I can't say enough about it, everyone should get the chance to visit. Have you been on any international trips yet?

Ahh but those who aren't "good" at yoga benefit the most from doing it! So did you make it to a class?

My friends and I still quote lines from the movie Rudy from time to time, such a classic. And the Notebook is a guilty pleasure of mine, but please don't tell anyone or I'll start judging you for reading the Twilight series.

-XXX

P.S. I didn't actually send a pic to the cougar!

I guess I like the messages, I think you could have dropped either the yoga or movie line imo but I would drop the PS line 99% of the time.

Yah, those 2 lines seemed a bit extraneous.

The PS line is kinda the whole punchline. It's funny (or maybe not) to make them think that I actually sent that pic to some rando cougar online

I think the first part about the cougar and pic is funny and 'keeps them guessing' but I think the PS just takes out everything the joke brings in the first place. Maybe its just me tho.