Dunno how much to text nurse. Saw her Wednesday, texted her last on Friday, seeing her this Friday,seems an awkward gap. I do know she's on nights all this week so at least she won't be dating anyone else before I see her.

She could have a bf or something. Its standard for girls to block guys they flirt with when a bf or husband is around, then they unblock when hes away.

It's possible. She is away for work tho. She mentioned go to the movies and for drinks. I'm not gonna worry about it. Either she blocked me and nothing I can do about it or something else and I guess ill find out. Ill just see what the story is with the other girl

Also if if matters right before the problems I was playing poker all night at a place with spotty cell service

Its terrible advice even if he wanted to be exclusive

Christ.

I'm glad that girl's trip to see amazin is over. So glad she's finally going home. That **** was painful.

Surprised she's not in a body bag. Creepy.

Amazin,

I'm struggling to understand the feeling her up on the couch thing. Are you guys on the couch and she has her legs draped over you? You guys aren't kissing, correct? So much about you running on her body seems forced and awful. No wonder she feels weird.

The bolded part is the answer to so many of these dating quandries and almost always good advice. Of course hard to do in practice, but you've already done all you can do, just have to sit back and wait for the results.

on tinder, just saw a girl who's profile picture was her making out with a dude. obviously swiped "liked"

I just got Tinder and the girls are pretty young+hot. Probably a low percent of girls actively going on dates but seems so easy to use that its definitely worthwhile.

Is there a best practices for Tindr? I stopped at the point where it wanted my facebook to sign up.

Earlier in the thread people said it doesn't show up on you FB. They just use it to auto fill out your profile for you. I saw a girl I knew when I was rating girls, I couldn't see Tinder anywhere on her facebook page.

tinder doesnt show up publicly anywhere, and its very low effort and possible high reward. also, there are a lot of bots. just swipe when youre bored and see if anything happens imo

Just read the last bunch of days in the thread. I think we all learned a valuable lesson from amazin's experience: Never pay for a girl to fly out to you if you have never had sex with her before.

Hey, I haven't had a vacation in a while, maybe one of you would like to pay for a ticket for me to visit you?

But seriously, yeah that was a really, really bad idea. Amazin - sorry it didn't go the way you hoped.

so this girl started chatting me on okc on the instant chat thing, turns out we used to intern at the same place, chatted for a good 30 minutes or so, and then i said "hey i have to head into work, would you wanna get a drink some time, exchange more intern stories" and it said she was offline. havent heard since. worth a follow up message in a couple days?

My thoughts on the last few amazin pages of this thread:

- Paying for half a plane ticket is a pretty desperate move. Guys who have options don't have to do that sort of thing and any girl who wants to come see you will find a way to save up for the other half of a domestic flight.

- Paying for the whole ticket and expecting to get a refund from her is just LOLOLOL. Almost no chance she was planning to pay you back and she probably doesn't even have the money.

- You really need to get some confidence amazin. Paying for some white trash girl to fly down for a free weekend just so you can feel her boobs a couple of times is just ****ing ridiculous man. The time for all of this nonsense to end was the first night, when she decided to sleep on the couch without even a kiss good night. That's her prerogative, but she needs to find a hotel in the morning and enjoy the rest of her stay in your lovely city. LOL at taking her to meet your cousin and paying for her again and checking her facebook while she's out at a bar working other guys. Come on dude.

- Selling the couch before she came back for the night would have been one of the all time epic plays and she probably would have slept with you just for the audacity of it. Too bad she was never planning on coming back (except for maybe a ride to the airport!)

- None of the girls ATF is talking to are hot. Makes me wonder about the ZOMGHOT cheerleader he was bragging about. Definitely skeptical now.

Who here has the a-list function ? Seriously considering it atm for the invisible browsing option, on the other hand I feel like I might miss someone opening on me where I would have visited her profile without sending a message.

Also, thanks to this thread and the posters in it I'm proud to present you a first date. After about 6 months, 200 msgs, 10 first replies and 0 dates and 0 posts ITT on a payed site I switched to OKC and BOOM, Im going out for drinks Thursday with a girl who opened on me! Ill post pics later if anyone is interested, she seems pretty cool, her pics look decent, she lives close by and has a seemingly interesting job as a web developer (I know right..). We both live in areas where its hard to get drinks so I proposed to meet in a different, larger city close by, Im actually pretty excited and somewhat nervous ...

yes

You can put invisible browsing on and "let her know I visited" the first time you check her profile

I'm trying a new method. I'm going for the ask out on the opening message. I say something nice or funny along with it. We'll see if it works.

"You should message me if:
you are looking for someone to spend your life with, to buy a house with, to travel with, watch movies with and cuddle with...."

that escalated quickly...or backwards

Met up with amazin for some sweet advice. He doesn't like this picture so don't judge him on it.