Option #1 obviously. Otherwise: "If you spam messages like you ****, let's meet!"

While 2r8c (lololol) is certainly attractive, and probably one of the best looking, it's demonstrative of how different we all are when it comes to attraction. What's weird is 98% of the women I've gone out on dates with are brunettes; of the 2% that were not - they were blonde - one of them stuck around for a while.

ATF are those annoying typos on purpose?

ITT we learn that preferred board game can be a dealbreaker.

2nd row last and 3rd row last are the 2 clear favourites in my opinion.

I'm also terrified by 3rd row 5th in's lack of a nose.

BTW, I put that couch on craigslist. Have one buyer interested already. Making a sale before she comes home would be awesome.

Gangsta, option 1. No reason to do anything if you're not interested

Is it ever worth it to re message? Even a year + since you last message someone? Every now and then I see a girl I messaged over a year ago and think about messaging again

My vote is for r1c3

Can't figure out if you're real or an ATF-esque troll. Take it down a notch bro

Haha, actually it wouldn't be that much of a shock. I'm moving out of state in a week or so and am selling all my furniture. I actually told the girl that I was selling the couch on her first night here, it wouldn't be that big a shock.


ATF is a level?

I remessaged a girl back when people used myspace as an online dating tool. No response to my first message but I came up with a much better opener the second time I found her profile that I couldn't resist trying. It never turned into a serious relationship but we got together a few times. We became friends and I got to hook up with a lot of her friends, and we still talk today. Well worth it imo.

I've tried the remessage a few times. Once after a couple months of no reply, but she seemed to check out my profile about every week or so. She responded to my second message two months later. We went out a few times, but I didn't really dig her that much. I've also sent second messages to maybe 3-4 other women with no luck. There were also a few other women that I sent messages to that I legit don't know if I ever sent a first message to. I think the odds are not in your favor, but better than most people would suggest itt, esp. if you do seem to have some serious common interests or she has been checking out your profile or something.

mets,

She was probably not into you to begin with, but her life isn't that interesting right now or she had something specifically negative happen recently and decided "**** it" I can get a free mini-vacation out of going to see this guy and maybe he is different in-person. You weren't and she didn't have that much fun, so she just went to go do her own thing.

Also, I think the fact she is using you for the cost of the flight and the nights out means she is probably most interested in finding a sugar daddy, and the fact you "need" the $100 means you are not what she wants. She is probably looking for a rich dude. **** her, move on.

She had already met me in person several times. She has 2 kids, her baby daddy is broke, and she has a job making 17 an hour. Looking for a sugar daddy is definitely a possibility, but why me? I never gave her anything to indicate that I had money, other than offering to pay for half the trip.

She was probably hoping there was at least a very small % you had money since you were willing to pay for some of the trip, and was planning to free-roll you anyway so worst case she somehow pays 50%, but most of the time gets the whole thing for free and some % finds a rich dude to support her.

I don't think we need to invent any 'in search of a sugar daddy' scenarios to explain what happened, just read this. She probably wanted to have a good time, but didn't, so no pussy for amazin.

To be fair, it seems like she definitely went into that boob grab with a preconcieved notion she was not going to hook up with OP.

What happened at these nights out where you covered the tabs, no offense, but if you say you "need" the $100 amazin and you paid for the drinking, was she having fun when you went out, or was it a cheap date scenario?

We went out the first day she came. Dinner at the casino - 54 dollars + tip. Drinks after at casino bar - 20 dollars + tip.

Drove to Naples FL, Miami FL, and back to Tampa. She didn't pay for gas. Went out to eat in Naples, I paid, went out to eat in Miami, she wasn't hungry and only had 1 drink, which she paid for.

+1, there are also probably 1000 factors we can't know about bc we don't know the entire backstory. And it's honestly not important because I think the above is most likely

I'm glad I'm not the only one not buying the sugar daddy angle. You guys are too cynical. There aren't that many women out there solely looking for a sugar daddy. amazin, I think you just ****ed this one up. Did she end up coming back tonight or is she hanging out with her friend overnight?

She's still out with the friend, just posted a picture of them on FB outside a bar. Not sure if they're coming back tonight.

Also, this girl had actually been planning to move to Tampa for good at one point, that's actually how we reconnected.

When she was planning to move here I told her I wanted to be her boyfriend (I know this is an awful move) and she basically said "We can see about that" A 4 day visit obviously makes it a very different situation, but there's no way she didn't know that I wanted to have sex when she came. I just ****ed it up, no way around it. Or, the outside chance that she knew I wanted sex and never planned to give any, just used me for the ticket

Amazin,

Just learn from this experience and don't **** it up with jennitron.

amaazingmets,

why me you ask?

i'd say probably because you gave her 100 dollars. you don't care about the 100 dollars so why not move on?

I don't know how serious I am about wingmanning but it is all so tempting to papparazi liveblog some spectacular Amazinmets dating action.

I'm not sure if it is even salvageable at this point