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08-17-2013 , 01:41 PM
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Originally Posted by KPowers
This thread has degenerated substantially. =\
amazinmets was liveblogging a date as recently as 36 hours ago, gtfo with this degenerating stuff. There can't be gold 24/7
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08-17-2013 , 01:45 PM
I missed that. I just pop in occasionally now.I saw we were picking apart every girl's looks and then I see we're all trying to get our rating up but not by improving the way we look or the quality of our pictures.
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08-17-2013 , 01:48 PM
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Originally Posted by KPowers
If you aren't five stars it isn't going to matter

1.) Your main picture is still not actually five stars, so nobody's going to click it anyways

2.) Girls don't pay for OKCupid, so they aren't able to search for 5 star men anyways.


This thread has degenerated substantially. =\
Back when I was more active on this site, they let you know about mutual 5 stars. I went on a girl and 4 starred her, she 4/5'ed me and I got this "you like each other" email or something like that and I knew which girl it was right away. She might have been a paying member, not sure. Although perhaps not as relevant, is this not the case anymore?
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08-17-2013 , 01:54 PM
Lol now Jennitron is somehow showing up in my Quicksearch even though she is 2,500 miles away from me. You've popped up three times now in the Quicksearch, Jenn. I'm guessing OKC pushes profiles of people who 5 starred you in front of you more?
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08-17-2013 , 02:32 PM
Maybe I'll wingman amazin on my way back
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08-17-2013 , 02:35 PM
That would be epic.
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08-17-2013 , 02:38 PM
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Originally Posted by Coasterbrad
Lol now Jennitron is somehow showing up in my Quicksearch even though she is 2,500 miles away from me. You've popped up three times now in the Quicksearch, Jenn. I'm guessing OKC pushes profiles of people who 5 starred you in front of you more?
It does. Tinder does too
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08-17-2013 , 02:40 PM
+1 wing him if you get the chance. Act like you know him intimately and stuff.

As a side observation, the opener that works the most for me online is: Whatever the girl says she's not into/really dislikes, ask her why she likes it so much and that it's silly. They always respond to this.
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08-17-2013 , 02:55 PM
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Originally Posted by Jennitron
Maybe I'll wingman amazin on my way back
can we get a third party volunteer for the liveblog?
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08-17-2013 , 03:02 PM
Amazin,

Play it cool and don't feel up jennitron before she's flirting with you and touching you a little first!
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08-17-2013 , 04:17 PM
Just earned my first block
It wasn't even bad, her username was "lol" and I asked if she's constantly laughing.
Apparently not.
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08-17-2013 , 04:19 PM
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Originally Posted by fanapathy
Just earned my first block
It wasn't even bad, her username was "lol" and I asked if she's constantly laughing.
Apparently not.
you deserved that one.
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08-17-2013 , 04:31 PM
lol
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08-17-2013 , 05:36 PM
I just woke. Chick is in the other room, probably still asleep. I feel very used and my feelings are hurt by this whole situation.

Ill take this girl back to the airport for her flight, but besides that I want her out of my house. I'm also not spending another dime on her.
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08-17-2013 , 06:28 PM
Amazin,

Feel annoyed, but don't feel hurt. This is just some chick you spent $100 to have come out and see what happens, not some whore you paid to **** you. For all you know, she had good memories of you and was thinking she'd prob bang you, but then when she got here and hung out w you she realized that spark just wasn't there. I mean, maybe she is a schemer and actively planned to get a subsidized vacation out of you, but I would be kinda surprised if that's the case. Good looking girls can get guys to pay for much better trips than crashing on your apartment couch if that's their game. I just think she thought it would be fun to come hang out with you and maybe there would be some banging too, but the vibe just didn't develop. I totally understand you being disappointed, but in general I think you should just try to focus on having fun and not have preconceived expectations of what's going to happen, and then your mindset will be much better and things will flow more naturally. Sometimes sex isn't in the cards. Don't be hurt by that, just try and make the best of the situation.
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08-17-2013 , 06:39 PM
Does that mean you're free Sunday? When is her flight?
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08-17-2013 , 06:47 PM
ow ow
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08-17-2013 , 07:00 PM
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Originally Posted by Jennitron
Does that mean you're free Sunday? When is her flight?
Starting to get interesting.

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08-17-2013 , 07:02 PM
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Originally Posted by amazinmets73
I just woke. Chick is in the other room, probably still asleep. I feel very used and my feelings are hurt by this whole situation.

Ill take this girl back to the airport for her flight, but besides that I want her out of my house. I'm also not spending another dime on her.
Can wholeheartedly understand this. At the same time, I feel you might have had the wrong mindset if you thought too much about the sex and possibly tried to push it rather than let it happen. I think it's very unlikely that she intended to use you for no real reason, but you never know, some people/girls are really weird.

I'm sad about this whole sort of charade and wish you the best.
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08-17-2013 , 07:05 PM
I just got messaged by a mostly empty profile that just has a pic of his torso in a t-shirt with the explanation "I can't say/show more of myself on this since I teach college students. More than happy to reveal more about myself to individuals, just not the okcupid masses."

The message, in its entirety, is: "Hi."

To top it off, in answer to the question: "Have you ever had a sexual encounter with someone of the same sex?"

he put: "No, and I would never."

Besides being terrible at this whole online thing, he seems terrible at gay relationships.
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08-17-2013 , 07:11 PM
Gay asexual obv
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08-17-2013 , 07:11 PM
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Originally Posted by Jennitron
Does that mean you're free Sunday? When is her flight?
I'm free Sunday. Flight is at 6PM Monday. But Ill have no trouble ditching her.
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08-17-2013 , 07:12 PM
Is he listed as a bi guy?

It's possible he doesn't understand stuff or might have answered this question in regards to getting along better with the female matches.

If not, doesn't really make sense and might be a curious guy or somehow a troll
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08-17-2013 , 07:17 PM
Thanks El Diablo. I'm actually in the hole for more than 100, because she still hasn't paid me for half the flight, not to mention me paying the tab for her everytime we went out. Stuck a couple buy-ins here.

Still, not the end of the world. Speaking of, how would you guy go about getting the money she owes you and ditching her?
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08-17-2013 , 07:19 PM
Make sure the girl sees Jenni then just say "we're going to hang out, see you later!" That would put her in her place.
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