Hey guys,
Decided to give this a bit more serious attempt.
I'm looking for some help/tips about profile pic.
I set up an account at a really good local site, and my profile is theoretically really good, it's got lots of pics in it of me with various girls and in cool exotic locations doing all sorts of stuff. Text is a mix of cocky jokes and generally decent-written material about myself and what I'm looking for. It's pretty much textbook pickup stuff, so I'm not worried about it.
Now, usually I'd use one of those pics I already know "work" as a profile pic - however, I've had a lot of change since then and look very different; it wouldn't be right and somewhat misrepresenting myself to do so.
I have now longish hair and a longer goatee thing, it's sort of a typical heavy metal look - actually, I'm just realizing writing this that my style and look is very similar to James Hetfield from Metallica.
Really close to this, except slightly longer hair and beard. (my facial qualities are about the same, maybe 1/10 better, which still means not very good looking)
This is not necessarily a bad thing because it can trigger me as a cool rock&roll guy, but it's tough to portray "correctly" on a dating site. I know very well that getting a haircut, shaving and taking a good pic in a slick suit would work, but it's not true to who I am anymore. This isn't problem for regular picking up, but it is for online.
Should I just go see a professional photographer? Taking pics of myself with (OK quality) webcam don't come across well, the lighting in my apartment sucks and they don't allow photoshopping at this site. Nobody is gonna click my profile if I look average or even somewhat ugly, and the profile pic is super important.
Thankful for any help