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Originally Posted by LT22
Insta snap up the Wednesday or get rid of her. It seems like she is busy/boring as ****, so it would take a lot for me to pursue.
Is she hot? Does she have a good job? What qualities attract you to her? I can't remember the background story. You've been on one date?
She's gorgeous, good career, we got along incredibly well on the date...I like a lot about her other than the feeling I'm (now) getting that she's seeing a bunch of guys as well. Not that she's not allowed to, but she was pretty clear about not being the kind to date more than one person at a time, so if she lied it's obviously a bad sign. I'll quote the TR, hold on:
had a first date with a girl from OKC who expressed serious reservations about online dating...I first got her number over 2 weeks ago but she went to the states to visit her bro, timing blah blah....met her at her building and it was a torrential downpour (Toronto, for anyone following the news). Told her to bring down an umbrella, and right away she's holding my arm underneath. Looked good in pics- great in person. We had dinner + a bottle of wine near her place, then went to play pool and have another drink somewhere we were the only two people. Walked her back to her place and had a (very) mini makeout outside. She went in, and I watched to see if she'd look back before she got in the elevator...bam! Earlier when I asked her when I'd see her again (wouldn't normally, but I was a bit tipsy) she said she's got a crazy week because of work stuff but we'd go out soon. All in all lots of good vibes, but given that I think she's VERY conservative sexually before she's serious with someone, what do people recommend for next steps? It's easy when you don't really care, tougher when you really do. 15 min post date she texted "hope you're ok to drive...I know I wouldn't be! Thank you for such a nice evening"...I made a joke about her not driving and said you're welcome, thanks for being a great date, or something like that...she responded with get home safe, talk soon.
That was monday...wednesday I followed up with a text, she insta responded, kept conversing, made plans for friday night...she initiated the next day too, we were chatting on and off throughout the day and then at night she told me she couldnt go out friday because such a busy week is coming up but she had a really nice time and wants to see me again soon when she can breathe (her words, not mine). I think there are a lot of signs that she could be genuinely busy and is being honest, but what changed from thursday morning to thursday night to cancel a friday night date? She initiated texts again last night and this afternoon. Maybe I'm just frustrated because I hate scheduling dates that far in advance (next sunday for example) with someone I've already gone out with.
Last edited by lazer; 07-14-2013 at 06:40 PM.