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Originally Posted by SandraXII
Sounds like you're the kind of guy the majority of the idealistic-type girls are waiting around for, (ie, hoping to get lucky finding the guy of their dreams rather than settling for anything less) whereas the 9s and 10s girls who happen to be on the sites probably never get anyone because they don't consider anyone good enough for them, or they're crazy, or both.
Would be interested to learn about your other experiences online dating. How selective are you? Have you been on many dates with girls you consider are your 'level', and what have they been like? I've been on dates with a 9 and a couple of 8s, but I'm probably a 7.5. The 9 was actually a really interesting and memorable date (I think I mentioned her at some stage in this thread) but definitely hard work...
I made an account, 5 days later when out with this girl, went out with a different girl the following night, went out with this girl again 2 days later, then another day after that, then one more time, then deleted my OKC account. lol. The 2nd girl was about a 7, I could have easily went out with again, she texted me about 5 days later and I just said that I had met someone already.
She has said stuff like "where have you been all my life?" to which I just respond "come on now..."
The funny thing about me and my gf is that she always laughs about how its so weird that she likes me so much because I satisfy 0 of her dating criteria. Younger. Make less money. Live >30 min. away. Still in school/live at home. Don't play sports regularly. Have tattoo's. Etc etc. But if you think about it, its a + for me that that's the situation, as if I was just some dude that checked all the checkboxes, she could easily replace me with someone else who fits the template. But in our situation obviously there is some kind of real connection going on which caused her to disregard the template/criteria.