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Originally Posted by El Diablo
ATF,
"I never understand online girls who correspond like this... like, WTF is going on here?? Why bother to respond if you're going to chat like this?"
Of course, she's the bad conversationalist, that's it! Well, let's look at your chat:
"If your eye color is real i'll film myself eating my keyboard and upload the video to youtube!" - Canned generic line.
"Uhhhh... I'll have to check the fine print on my dental insurance before I follow through with the keyboard eating thing. Until then, how do you feel about meeting guys you met online who have plastic chips embedded in their mouth?" - Continuing on w/ canned generic routine, and still not referencing a single thing about either of you that might be a basis for conversation or connection.
"Consider it works. I'm ___. Are you ___?" - Once again, nothing interesting at all. My name is x. Wow, great conversation.
What on earth that you wrote did you expect to generate any kind of real conversation with her? You brought absolutely nothing to the table in terms of engaging content.
Usually a question mark in at least one of the responses is a nice way to engage in a message conversation with a total unknown. But ultimately I think you're correct, my "message game" is super rusty since I've basically not been doing it for over a month. That said, I got her to open up a bit...
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Wait, you're not going to say my physic powers are amazing?! Do you like to chat or should I just go ahead and ask for a date and your number?
Jul 9, 2013 – 2:40pm
I'd rather get to know u a little better first I guess, and I have no idea how to word this without sounding snobbish bu I don't mean it the way it's about to sound. ..basically too many people message me for my number and if I gave my number to everyone that asked Id have lots of random strange men calling and texting.
Jul 9, 2013 – 2:50pm
Oh, wow, a paragraph! I totally get where you're coming from and it doesn't come off as snobbish at all; there's a lot of weirdos - men and women - in this online dating racket. Pretty sure I'm normal with a bit of an edge and quirkiness. What are you looking for?
She then sent a paragraph describing what she wants in a guy and how she spends her summers and winters BUT the response did not include a question... which is indicative of a poor conversationalist, at least through messages, IMO. Responding is an indication of interest, that she doesn't seem interested in knowing anything about me by asking a question or two is just ****ing annoying. I have low odds on this developing into an actual date if only because I'll lose interest in thinking of things to ask or write... that and you ****ers have trained me out of my naturally incredible wit