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Originally Posted by lazer
As a follow up to the girl I mentioned before (had great OKC exchange, I gave her my number and said text me and we'll make the plans, she never messaged)...
I've got a few dates lined up for next week so I figured I was in a 'what the hell, why not?' situation with the previous girl. I sent her another message today (2 or 3 days later) saying "Or I could be the man and ask you for your number...it's what George Clooney would do".
20 minutes later got "xxx xxx xxxx "
It really pays to be bold. I think a lot of guys are wishy washy about all this stuff and you can differentiate yourself from the pack by being assertive and confident. Basically acting, as you wrote, like George Clooney.
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Originally Posted by Ice Cold Nuts
This is correct. I never go for a kiss on the first date unless it's very obvious she wants it and will lead to at least extended making out. Sometimes not even on the second. A single lips-only kiss is not very exciting and it's better to be aloof.
Plus she expects you to go for the goodnight kiss, it's been a date staple since the dawn of time, and it's almost always better to avoid doing what's expected.
Single lips-only kiss is probably the worst of all moves. In my experience, it's basically meaningless in terms of establishing anything. Like if you see her again, then what? Greet her with a hug? Another single lip kiss?