Sue her for what, exactly? Most people don't have a pot to piss in, and anyone who pulls crap like this clearly isn't a life winner.

lol I contacted Craigslist and sent them a note.

I'm mostly pissed that only three people have contacted me.

pretty sure if I sued this girl all I'd get is a lifetime supply of eye makeup.

Anyways, just wanted to share, definitely the craziest thing I've ever had happen to me in online dating.

Hehe, it's pretty much Sunday morning, not a high traffic time for gay prostitution, if that makes you feel any better.

so wait, the girl asked you to **** her twice,you refuse because you're "nice" and don't want to take advantage of her (translation: I'm a pussy ) lmfao and then you wonder why she thinks you're gay hahaha

I elected to have sex with a different girl yesterday and last night I was doing other stuff(note the part where I miss all messages until later)

I just didn't feel it was relevant to the story.

Yeah I only said crackhead since you said one of them asked where to get crack after you were done.

Yeah, these type of black guys often times get squeezed between the cracks and are fighting a major uphill battle in exactly the way you describe.


someone that's really good would still get some results I'm sure, but the quality and quantity would be taking a drastic hit relative to what they're accustomed to

It was one of the truckers who asked me where to get crack, not the hookers.

I didn't read in that that she thinks he's gay. She just put his info all over the place so he'd get harassed because she was hurt that he turned her down.

He's just negging me and hoping it causes me to change teams for him.

I studied law in Europe, but regardless of civil damage you may or may not get, I am sure she could be prosecuted for some offense (harassement or else) and thus have a criminal record? Can't imagine a first world country that would not have a law against this kind of stuff.

I am sorry if I am way off here.

Every black girl, hell, every black friend I've ever had would talk and act completely different around their black friends than they would me. I'm all for being yourself at all times, but if that doesn't work, why not just do that?

Burd,

You would not like Stuart Scott!

The eye freaks me out a bit, but yeah, I'm aware he is playing a character for the most part on TV

sigh that's horrible advice. I don't know what's up with all the race talk. I'm white (eastern european) and I have no problem pulling black chicks. Also, the biggest players I see in clubs are black and they pull white tall hot chicks all the time. Online is different. I see girls posting in their profiles "I don't date black men" or "I don't date white men". It's bull****,girls don't know what they want,if your game is decent you'll have no problem meeting some of these girls even if you don't "match" the "requirements"

If you can't get a certain type of girl don't blame it on race,its because your game is crap.

I take back what I said earlier about BadL. It's pretty clear now that he is not here to help but to create the image of himself as the ultimate player. Ego, insecurity, and delusion. Grain of salt, etc.

It's waaaayyyy easier for white guys to pull black girls than for black guys to pull white girls.

And live it's easier to pull chicks of difference races because you can break down stereotypes easier.

BadL is a credit to this thread, I for one love his advice.

Not to drag out the race topic any further, but what you wrote doesn't dispute what's being discussed here and is consistent with what's already been stated.

The issues about race were about black guys getting white women (not white guys/black women), and about OP not actually fitting the stereotypical personality type of a black guy that a white girl who does actually decide to date outside her race may be expecting/looking for. The report one online site released that someone posted ITT already showed a white guy will get responses from a black girl 35% more than a black guy even will, and that from white girls the white guy will get a response 40% more. But there's nothing to be gained or changed from this reality except for understanding what's going on and continue gaming on.

Based on the numbers posted, it's also way easier for white guys to pull black girls than for black guys to pull black girls too.

I do agree though that the advice of faking yourself to be "more black" is pretty terrible advice. Not because it wouldn't produce more results (it probably would once you became congruent) but because it's just got to feel awful putting on a mask and charade every time you run into a girl who needs a little more street in her life.

Yes, it is without a doubt easier for a white guy to pull black girls than a black guy. No matter what the race is, a white guy will always have an easier time.

No ****ing way am I going to fake a hood guy act.

Had my 1st online date with someone from Plenty of Fish the other day. Thought it went pretty well and I was interested in meeting again.

I received a message from her stating that she was deleting her account but that I should phone her in the new year. However, she hasn't given me her phone number I'm inclined to believe that it was a genuine mistake, if she wasn't interested she could have just deleted the account.

I've responded to the message as there is a profile with a leaving message on it still visible. The profile doesn't show up when I do a username search though. Any chance of her getting my message?

How did you have a date without getting a phone number first?

By messaging each other on the site.

Clearly this is just a sh** test. Just play it off saying "haha my best buddy did that once, it didn't really bother me but most of the guys were disappointed that I wasn't gay and wanted to know who made that cocktease post so they could round up their friends kick his ass"

Whatever she says in response you probably have to shoot back with a solid neg to show you can still control the frame to DHV

Maybe text something "now that I'm a f****t I'm going to have to f*** you in the ass next time I see you" add a naughty grin

This is not something you should play off. That behavior is completely unacceptable, psycho behavior and I would immediately cut her off.

Even if it were a test, I disagree with your response. Reread what you wrote. It takes like 10 seconds to say which crosses into reactive territory. Plus it's made up! Don't do that. Congruency is so important. Not being congruent is how you fail her tests.

Also, stop saying "f****t". Don't let people influence you into entering that negative headspace. It matters.