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Originally Posted by NickMPK
Yeah, this may be true. I have definitely learned not to talk in too much detail about own areas of expertise, although I sometimes slip up. Girls always ask me what my dissertation was about, but I've figured out that they don't really want to hear me explain this.
I do like to talk to girls about what they are passionate about or have expertise in. I would figure they like talking about this, and even if the date doesn't go anywhere, I have learned something interesting. I do try to mix up the conversation a lot, but it does sometimes get a little bit into the weeds.
I've gone on a couple of dates with girls to concerts, and these have gone pretty well. I'm not really all that comfortable with "activity" first dates...one time just walked around a park, but it still felt a little weird. And I really like having alcohol available on first dates, if only for my own sake. Coffee dates are almost always terrible.
Talk to girls about what YOU are passionate about.
Its what YOU want to talk about. Its YOUR date.
Lets say you meet a girl online,get her # ,you call her and says " Nick I'm going to have sex with you friday night. But let's get a couple drinks first. Meet me at bar x"
Would you try to impress her?
Would you try to find out what she likes to talk about?
Would you have any problem geting physical?
Would you have any problem making out with her?
NO. You would be relaxed and having fun because you know you're going home with her.
This is the mindset you want to have. She is there because she wants you.