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Originally Posted by BadLieutenant
what zbthorton said,they have abundance and you probably suck. Did you make out with any of them? Post details.
I keep a journal where I write every detail so it helps me improve.
Yes, there is clearly something I am sucking at here.
I really have no problem getting first dates....half of the girls I go out with contact me first. I could easily go on 3 dates/week with very attractive women, mostly doctors and lawyers; usually I only go on 1 or 2/week, because it is draining for me to meet so many new people. I have been on about 20 first dates since I moved to this city in late August.
Most of the girls who contact me first I have no interest in dating, but a few I do, and among those who I go on one date with, I would happily go on a second date with as well. So the asymmetry here clearly tells me I am doing something wrong. I don't imagine most girls message a guy first if they only intend on going on one date if he's interested.
To answer your question, I did not make out with any of the three from last week; I did with the girl I went out with immediately previous to those three. I think I have brought 4 of the ~20 girls I have gone out with back to my place on the first date.
I will post some details from the past four a little later.