i'll drop something in here for some insight maybe. not really online dating but most of the contact so far is digital so whatever
so i'm from the netherlands, met this girl from el salvador who studies in germany just over the border from where i live, same age as me in my regular bar somewhere late 2012 when i was there with a classmate of mine. she added both of us on fb on the spot.
chatted with her through fb the day after and fairly frequently from there on out. fwiw i know from my classmate that he and her also chatted through fb a bit but that stopped since new years eve.
like 3 months i think later she tells me she will be in my city again and so we arrange to meet up in the same bar we met. does this constitute a date? lol **** knows. anyway i read some book on body language a while ago hah and noticed hers was pretty great. very open and we had a great time imo. no (awkward) silences and just drank some beers and a few shots together. chatted mainly about school/music/random stuff and had a laugh, danced for like 1 minute too. she had to get her last bus back to germany pretty early though at like 11 so we said goodbye (just a hug and maybe a 2 kiss on the cheek deal i'm not sure anymore) and that was that. she PMed me on fb next day saying something like "last night was good" and asked about what did i do for the rest of the evening etc.
i didnt have whatsapp since last month (dunno what the whatsapp culture is like in the USA but in the netherlands and germany everyone with a smartphone has it. i assumed everyone everywhere did but some english people i know seem pretty alien to it so i dunno..)
so last month i tell her on fb chat i finally got whatsapp, 5 mins later she starts talkin to me on there. we chat some random stuff about her new place or w/e and next day she sends me a pic through there of her new haircut. this keeps up a few weeks with off and on chat til last week she says "hey would u like to visit me one day
i can take with my semester ticket from the uni
during weekends" pretty bad english by her as usual. i went ye that would be good.
no more convo since that til like 3 days ago where she whatsapped me with "hey what are u up to, i was gonna go to ur city today but blablabla* came up
"
long fkn story but i guess i'm just lookin for some insight, do you think she is interested romantically? on one hand i'm thinking yes cause she kept up convo with me for long while she didnt with my other mate that she met on the same evening, we had sort of a meetup thing, she doesnt have a bf, she's sending me pics through whatsapp, she's asking me to meet her in her city.
but on the other hand our meetup didnt really have much 'romantic' undertones with just a quick hug/kiss on the cheek as a goodbye and no real flirty talk beside some good body language.
obv i'd like to meet her there or next time she's here but it would suck traveling to some different country if she wasnt interested, so any insight on what to think and/or say through whatsapp for now etc would be cool
Last edited by didonk; 05-07-2013 at 03:03 PM.
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