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12-14-2012 , 11:11 AM
"So why'd you get fired?" sounds like a great opening.
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12-14-2012 , 11:12 AM
Bad idea amazin. You don't **** where you eat unless you're planning to find another job soon.
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12-14-2012 , 11:19 AM
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Originally Posted by ganstaman
"So why'd you get fired?" sounds like a great opening.
Yea sounds good
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12-14-2012 , 11:23 AM
A better opener would be "hi I'm AMAZING are you amazing? " Lmao
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12-14-2012 , 11:34 AM
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A better opener would be "hi I'm AMAZING are you amazing? " Lmao
Awful
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12-14-2012 , 11:56 AM
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Originally Posted by BadLieutenant
Again. The strategies to get the girl are exactly the same. What most of you fail to realize is that in order to get the girl of your dreams you must be capable of getting other girls like her.

Let's say you luckbox a 9. You feel really ****ing good about yourself,your friends think you're cool everything's perfect. Sooner or later you'll realize deep inside that you got lucky,that you don't deserve her,you don't feel entitled. You become needy,youre afraid of losing her because you can't get another girl of the same caliber. She can sense that,she's no longer attracted to you. She dumps you. You wonder what happend while youre crying yourself to sleep jerking off using your own tears as lube.

That's why lottery winners go broke all the time. They didn't work for it.


EDIT: if Warren Buffett goes broke how long will it take him to get rich again? Not long. He already knows how to do it.

Same with a player. He knows how to get 9s. He will be sad for a while ****ing 6&7s just to forget about her because she was special,but then he gets back on his A game.
Maybe you're looking for the kind of girl impressed by the PUA stuff. I wasn't.

Bagging a girl on the basis of an act isn't going to keep her. If you want a relationship then being able to bag another 9 isn't going to make you happy. If you're yourself and meet someone who is into you then you won't ever feel like you don't deserve her.

You're under 25 right? Never had a real long term relationship? Maybe you don't want one now, that's fine, am sure the PUA stuff is great for finding a stream of women to screw.
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12-14-2012 , 12:21 PM
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Maybe you're looking for the kind of girl impressed by the PUA stuff. I wasn't.

Bagging a girl on the basis of an act isn't going to keep her. If you want a relationship then being able to bag another 9 isn't going to make you happy. If you're yourself and meet someone who is into you then you won't ever feel like you don't deserve her.

You're under 25 right? Never had a real long term relationship? Maybe you don't want one now, that's fine, am sure the PUA stuff is great for finding a stream of women to screw.
I'm 34. Had 2 serious relationships and both girls cheated on me. I was mad,blaming them,didn't realized at the time it was my fault.

I don't get girls based on an act. I don't use routines like those Mystery Method ******s .

My whole game is based on this concept:

THERE IS NO REASON WHY I'M NOT ENOUGH.

This allows me to be relaxed,I don't have to do anything special to impress her. Just enjoy her company and express myself while moving things forward of course.


Here's the article that explains this in detail. If you understand it your results with girl will improve big time

http://alexattitude.com/who-are-you/
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12-14-2012 , 12:35 PM
I'm married, met my wife online, it was the only online date I went on.

Ok, I was probably lucky, but I think I had a great filtering process. That's the beauty of online, people might say it's for people with no live game, but if you know you're looking for something specific then you can rule out the 95% v quickly. You can't do that in a club.

The link was a bit TLDR, but I agree with what you've posted above it. That doesn't tie in with the cheesy lines abnd other advice you've posted all over the thread.
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12-14-2012 , 12:46 PM
Jecross the cheesy lines are just for text. And the truth is,if the initial interaction was solid then you don't need lines. But I do think you need them if the interaction was a quick 5min and for online game.
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12-14-2012 , 12:48 PM
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Originally Posted by RoundGuy
Wow. Just, wow.

I would prefer not to divert from the incredibly enlightening conversation currently taking place in this thread, but, the cat's already out of the bag, so, **** it:

I just saw, on the NFL Network, during a nationally televised NFL game, an ad for BlacksMeet.com. All of the incredibly good-looking actors were black, of course. I guess I'm not allowed to apply.

Wtf? Can you imagine the HORROR, and the OUTRAGE, if this was WhitesMeet.com?

Now back to your regular scheduled programming....
huh? WhitesMeet already exists


it's called "Whole Foods."
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12-14-2012 , 01:01 PM
Gonna hunt the chick out in 20 minutes. If I can find her, trip report
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12-14-2012 , 01:05 PM
Confidence is great. Cheesy lines just come across as faked confidence though. A half intelligent girl will probably see through it.
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12-14-2012 , 01:05 PM
Another thing I found useful during my online dating adventure: have something in your profile that gets them to qualify themselves right of the bat.

I had this in my profile...you should message me if you can run in 6 inch heels,have a sexy smile and a sense of fashion.

So youre asking yourself wtf BL what's the point? Well it shows that you have standards but in a funny way.


I was messaging girls and at one point during the convo this would happen most of the time:

Girl: blah blah you seem fun but I can't run in 6 inch heels

Me: its cool beb. This way if you turn out to be crazy in real life I can outrun you

They ****ing melt after that.

EDIT: replace crazy with serial killer/ax murderer/craiglist killer etc
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12-14-2012 , 01:06 PM
"I miss you serving, you were the prettiest cocktail waitress"
"I know you sell cigars, I don't know qbything about cigars' just came over to talk to you"

These are awful, all I've got though. Any help appreciated
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12-14-2012 , 01:11 PM
"beb" irrationally tilts me hard
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12-14-2012 , 01:11 PM
Does she know your name? If not just say hi...I'm amazin.

Or hi... I know this is a little akward but I saw you and thought you were really ****ing cute and I HAD to meet you

And yes say "****ing"
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12-14-2012 , 01:13 PM
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Originally Posted by TrueGamblers4ever
"beb" irrationally tilts me hard
Hahaha girls love it though
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12-14-2012 , 01:14 PM
BadLieu. My point is that someone who is impressed by that sort of line isn't what I'm looking for.

Your advice doesn't apply to everyone, you need to use the right bait for the fish you want.
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12-14-2012 , 01:17 PM
Jecross wtvr dude I'm done discussing that. Now let's help amazin lay that chick.
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12-14-2012 , 01:27 PM
BL,

I'm pretty confident lots of chicks think "beb" is super idiotic.
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12-14-2012 , 01:28 PM
If girls love "beb", then why does every girl say they hate when guys send messages with spelling or grammer mistakes? This seems like the one universal thing that all girls say they want from guys in their profiles.
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12-14-2012 , 01:29 PM
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"beb" rationally tilts me hard
fyp
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12-14-2012 , 01:30 PM
Beb is idiotic. DON'T use it
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12-14-2012 , 02:31 PM
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Originally Posted by BadLieutenant
Does she know your name? If not just say hi...I'm amazin.

Or hi... I know this is a little akward but I saw you and thought you were really ****ing cute and I HAD to meet you

And yes say "****ing"
Nope. I know she thinks I'm attractive though. Just went and looked. No sign of her, might be off today, I'll check later

And it's silly to say that because I've seen this girl for a year. Too shy to talk. No more.
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12-14-2012 , 03:08 PM
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Originally Posted by amazinmets73
Nope. I know she thinks I'm attractive though. Just went and looked. No sign of her, might be off today, I'll check later

And it's silly to say that because I've seen this girl for a year. Too shy to talk. No more.
In that case I would say forget about her. You saw her for a year without even saying hi . Telling her "hi you're cute" would be creepy. You could try saying something like

"hi I'm amazin. You worked here for a year right. (Don't wait for her to answer keep talking-this is important you're not asking for her approval )

If you wondering how I know that, I've been stalking you daily every Tuesdays when theres a full moon. I'm shy, been raised by the penguins in Antarctica. "

She'll probably lol and say its fine. You say yeah its fine so what's your
name...boom you're in.

Don't pretend you're confident. She knows you're not. You're shy that's ok.Try and look into her eyes when you talk to her. It's going to be hard,a little trick I used when I started is look at her nose it feels less awkward but she thinks you're looking at her eyes.
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