Hey guys, any chance anyone can have a quick look at my profile and comment a bit? Single since November and been doing online dating since January. I'd be happy to do the same for anyone
http://www.pof.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=53487856
I'd like to be pulling girls who are a 7 ish if that's realistic. As it stands I get quite a few initial messages but as with everyone they're mostly undesirables. I set the bar pretty high messaging all the hottest girls with my token spam message and tweaking each one to fit each. I have managed to get a few 8s and 9s to respond
but it's hard to sustain the convo with this level. The top one actually favourited me and responded to my message but she didn't respond to my response, that was two weeks ago. One more message?
Obv I mix in a few more realistic ones too.
I came off another website and joined Match too but I do put a fair bit of work into POF, just seems it has its ebb and flows. I got 13 girls email with both initial and responses one Sunday but then I could have days with no responses
Tough to predict.
So far on POF I have been a bit too picky probably. I had one date with this really cute girl (a nurse) and really liked her. We talked for 4 hours, went to two bars and round the market, started kinda stroking her leg, she was receptive, felt natural, we made out outside and I suggested meeting again. She said she was free on Thursday and I should text. So I text afterwards saying, had a good time, then she texts back next day saying she is gonna decline a second date since she thought we had nothing in common lol.
On the other site I had four dates with someone I got really attached to, we went all the way and things just felt great when I was with her, but I blew it by mentioning relationships... then there were a couple of one night things, one of which unrelated to dating websites.
I've got three dates sorted for the next week and a bit on POF and one second date on Match, but I kinda feel the second date we only just had enough to talk about on the first outing so might do something like a film...
Last edited by SandraXII; 05-05-2013 at 04:55 AM.