You know they say rape is a lot like bad weather....
I don't recall ever trying to date a woman with painted on eyebrows, but I suppose if she's from the barrio it could be acceptable.

…edgy…

Another woman messaged me on her own on pof. This one actually lives in town, however only has one picture and it is just of her face. We have a few important things in common, been messaging a few times a day for the past week so I ask for a second picture which she reluctantly agrees to. Again it’s just of her face and she suddenly looks 10 years younger. To me it seems she is hiding something. I feel it’s rude to ask her what body type she is. Not sure what to do to be honest. She is really sweet so far. Although 7 years older.

So let me get this straight. This comment of yours isn’t racist but my liking All Lives Matter signs so that you include the Jewish (nearly married a Jewish girl), Hispanics, and the poor whites among us I’m considered racist. I sometimes feel like I’m living in the twilight zone.

Was at a party of a good comedian friend of mine tonight and realized I had messaged 3 of her friends on OKC in the past year (none of them are comics - no replies from any of them). 900,000 people in my city and I get 3 people I had never met in real life prior that wanted nothing to do with me in the same 800 sq ft apartment. What are the odds?

At least one of them had fun practically shotgunning the bottle of mediocre Pinot I brought

Story time!

I know it's no relation to the topics at hand, but wtf.

Met a girl at at bar at closing time,I'm trashed,so is she.

We get to my place and I have no condoms, cause that's how I roll.

She doesn't care,but tells me she loves butt sex.

So we start there, it's not my thing, but she really likes it, so when I blast in her back pooter, she pulled it out and licks it clean.

I swear there were chunks.

So while I'm making wedding plans, she then wants me to put it in her main drain.

I'm done, I can't make my hog do anything, which she definitely didn't like.

So she punched me in the face.

I'm shocked, but it's happened before,not with her, but it's happened before.

It was the 80s kids.

She looks like Ana Cheri, was a stripper and promised if I did a good job, her cousin wanted some too.

Memories....

Ran into her a couple years later, I was engaged to my ex wife at the time, and she upped the ante by saying she wants me to bang her cousin,creampie, and pull out,then she would lick me clean.

I miss the 80s....



whatever

She’s almost guaranteed to be both overweight and old looking. You can skip the phase of ‘taking a chance’ on one-pic face pics and save some time and money. Unless of course the emotional connection you have overrides everything physical for you, in which case you are an incredible person.

No need to fight. You can both be racist.

Um, not incredible in the way you imagine but incredible in that you can always make an extra friend in life?

Is a disappeared bumble conversation a block? I have plenty of "deleted account" conversations at the bottom of my inbox, and I'm aware that unmatching will put the conversation down there at least for some period of time. I got a match tonight that disappeared entirely though. She messaged me, I messaged back, a few hours later she's gone entirely. I'm assuming that's a block but this is my first time seeing it.

could also have been banned as i also saw "they deleted their account" and "they weren't feeling it"

some of the women who i'd exchanged numbers with mentioned that i disappeared and that's when i had the "oh i got banned" conversation which seemingly went well but there's always certain implications of dirty dealings and unreliable narration involved - which is far from optimal

Think it helps to make the distinction between blocking and unmatching.

Looks like you just got unmatched if the convo disappeared. I feel like the majority of these instances the girl just decides she isn’t feeling it and doesn’t want to have to explain, so she unmatched and the convo is suddenly gone. Whereas blocking implies there was some untoward behaviour going on and is more likely to be accompanied by a report etc

The ones you see with deleted accounts are just the convos where she didn’t unmatch you, but rather just deleted her account and the app retains the convo

Unmatched convos still appear for a couple weeks though. You can click on them and it shows their name and an option to report (to avoid someone being abusive then unmatching to avoid consequences) but the conversation and profile are inaccessible. Looks like this:



I usually get them after dates that don't go anywhere. My latest conversation disappeared without a trace so it leads me to believe it was something else.

Here's my latest piece I wrote in response to the apparent generalization that single, never married, childless men are garbage

Does Being Single, Never Married, And Childless Make Me Immature?

Oh good another "Men my age only want younger women than me" article. We needed that. Don't want me? That's immaturity. What else could it possibly be?

Interesting, I’ve never seen this

Sick brag

Aha. Not sure why the feature doesn’t show for me. Needless to say I’ve had countless deletions and other forms rejections instead 😛

Completely hypothetically, if you were very tall, attractive and extremely wealthy, how would you go about trying to find a Swiss wife? Still just Tinder?

are you in switzerland?

middle class definition of wealthy or you put your money into a trust sort of wealthy?

i found bumble much better than tinder, has a userbase that's much more educated etc etc

but they also have bespoke matchmaking services that'll cost quite a bit but then you basically have someone searching for your specific requirements and then contacting them about going on dates on your behalf

but mostly, best way to leverage your wealth is to be associated with it - start attending social events where you're unlikely to find poors at - this'll get you introduced to women who know the deal already without it needing to be stated but are usually from strong backgrounds themselves so it's much less a gold digger situation but more of an equal standing situation

but otherwise, bumble over tinder, once i get the f out of maine i'll also look into the league, hinge, and coffee meets bagel

and start wearing blazers or whatever the swiss equivalent of that would be

i'm middle income with bad taste


i'm wealthy with bad taste

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/art...ood-woman.html



He's waiting for Jennifer Aniston to call.

I am in Switzerland. More the latter form of wealthy on your table. I got into crypto pretty big earlier on and held.

I just feel like such a dipshit on Tinder and I get ignored there so hard like every guy in existence. I do have professional lifestyle pictures and other quality pictures with friends. If I ever actually go on dates with women my success rates are extremely high. But actually being able to capture the attention of anyone to even get the date in the first place, moreso in Switzerland x10, is just an insurmountable problem for me.

And the stakes are higher for me now than dating in the past because I'm really just looking for marriage / children at this point, not just some whatever girl to date. So trying to take Tinder seriously is extra ******ed especially when I'm being abnormally picky.

I'll download Bumble, thanks for the tip. As far as matchmaking services, I saw one of them. I contacted her, the service seemed outrageously scammy. She wanted $50k... which is beyond find if I knew that it worked. But she wanted to coach me on relationships, tell me what clothes to buy, where to get my haircut, give me "life coaching" and all these services that I do not want as part of a mandatory package. She said it's a 9-month course before she'll introduce me to people. And even then, how the **** do I have any certainty who these people even are? Had to pass. Wasn't about the money, was about the system.

"start attending social events where you're unlikely to find poors at" - I don't really know what this means. I'm also really bad at networking and being sales-y. These types of things when I go in the past make me want to puke if that's what you're referring to.

I've spent an ungodly amount of money on sharp looking clothes the past 1-2 years. Doesn't really make any fundamental difference though. If I'm walking down the street the chance that there's interaction with a hot girl with me is effectively 0%. Other than that, don't know what difference it makes because my dating game I'd say is top tier when I'm actually on a date.


I've thought about making a significant bounty on Twitter to my zero followers and zero interactivity but I don't have that much shame just yet. Figured I'd out the problem in the likes of this place first lol.

I have an old gaming buddy from Sweden who married a super hot Swedish girl. He’s a frumpy Asian too. I asked him how he met his wife. Edit: He was the manager of a lingerie store she started working at and that’s how they met.

Unfortunately meeting a wife is going to be like making new friends. You are going to have to step out of your comfort zone at some point. Approach a girl on a hike, or at a rock climbing gym, randomly walking down the street… something like that

Are there no ‘Elite Singles’ style dating sites in Switzerland or something? Bound to be some sites with eligibility criteria out there surely