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05-02-2013 , 07:59 PM
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Originally Posted by NickMPK
I would guess that overall about 40% of girls that I message write me back).
Wow, this seems really high. You must be a lot better looking than me! Of course, tommytrash would say it's also because i'm short
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05-02-2013 , 08:01 PM
I think every reg poster itt should post a personal pic... Go!

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05-02-2013 , 08:05 PM
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Originally Posted by dalerobk2
Nick,

It doesn't seem unusual at all than younger women would be less inclined to go out with you. They might be somewhat interested and then flake when they reconsider the age difference. Doesn't seem particularly shocking to me, tbh.
This. To a girl in her early-mid 20s, a guy 10 years older than her borders on 'somewhat intrigued because the older, established guy likes me' and 'creepy'.
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05-02-2013 , 08:09 PM
I don't know, Nick, I'm your age but I don't message women under 25.
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05-02-2013 , 08:10 PM
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Originally Posted by _UM
Splash,

Her not mentioning her Bf in your interactions up to this point is the same as her not mentioning she has a pet rabbit. .
lol. if your gfs not telling males she hangs out with shes got a bf. you're in trouble
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05-02-2013 , 08:12 PM
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Originally Posted by Gaddy
I don't know, Nick, I'm your age but I don't message women under 25.
I'm 36 and I've never messaged a woman under 27. Though I might reconsider and go down to 26.
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05-02-2013 , 08:18 PM
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Originally Posted by Pay4Myschool
I think every reg poster itt should post a personal pic... Go!

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I'll do it but only after tommy or ATF
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05-02-2013 , 08:19 PM
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Originally Posted by dalerobk2
I'm 36 and I've never messaged a woman under 27. Though I might reconsider and go down to 26.
I'm 34 and I've messaged one 25-year-old, still thinking that she was too young but that we had a lot in common.
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05-02-2013 , 08:23 PM
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Originally Posted by LaShawnda
I'll do it but only after tommy or ATF
I'll do it when I get home in an hour

Atf better post a pic, ytf as well

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05-02-2013 , 08:25 PM
Messaging woman with the right context won't come off creepy if you are saying the right things. Also depends if you are looking to hook up or a relationship. 35 male 23 female is very easy to hook up with, not so much for a LTR
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05-02-2013 , 09:04 PM
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Originally Posted by Pay4Myschool
Atf better post a pic, ytf as well
What, I'm not already the 2nd-most photographed OOT'er?

(LazyMeatball FTW)
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05-02-2013 , 09:27 PM
I just got the "You are hot" email from OKC which proves it's a scam because my pictures aren't good and my profile is only half filled out. Either that or this is a nice humblebrag. My search results aren't any different though so I'm betting on the former.
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05-02-2013 , 09:36 PM
Nick,

What dale said.
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05-02-2013 , 10:17 PM
I'm not surprised that much younger girls are less inclined to go out with me. What surprises me is that they message me back despite not ultimately wanting to go out. This is something older girls never do. Maybe older girls are just generally more serious about being on the site for the sole purpose of meeting IRL, while some younger girls are just having fun texting online?
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05-02-2013 , 10:27 PM
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Originally Posted by LaShawnda
Wow, this seems really high. You must be a lot better looking than me! Of course, tommytrash would say it's also because i'm short
I doubt I am better looking....I just have profile that is targeted toward a particular type of girl, and mostly only message girls who seem likely to respond to it.
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05-02-2013 , 10:35 PM
Out of interest, what 'type' of girl are you after, and how does you profile help target them?
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05-02-2013 , 10:37 PM
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Originally Posted by NickMPK
I'm not surprised that much younger girls are less inclined to go out with me. What surprises me is that they message me back despite not ultimately wanting to go out. This is something older girls never do. Maybe older girls are just generally more serious about being on the site for the sole purpose of meeting IRL, while some younger girls are just having fun texting online?
It doesn't surprise me, but I don't know why.

I'm 36 and just broke up with a 25 year-old. A lot was right and I really wanted it to work, but man, that's an age difference. More than just number of years, but also where you are.
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05-02-2013 , 10:41 PM
Nick,

I don't think they are less into meeting, but they likely have more options and you are toward the lower end of their potential dates whereas you're toward the higher end of potential dates w older women, and this is reflected in follow through percentages.
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05-02-2013 , 10:44 PM
I've hit the jackpot... 3 of 4 girls in one night have initially messaged me, the other I messaged and all are attractive. I'm 24 in 3 weeks, stated I like slightly older women in my profile, and got messages from 19, 26, 28. The one i messaged was also 28, all 7/10++

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Last edited by Pay4Myschool; 05-02-2013 at 10:56 PM.
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05-02-2013 , 11:29 PM
If you guys don't like drama, I highly recommend only dating people that are 26 years or older. In my opinion girls below that age are all crazy. No stereotyping.
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05-02-2013 , 11:33 PM
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Originally Posted by garcia1001
If you guys don't like drama, I highly recommend only dating people that are 26 years or older. In my opinion girls below that age are all crazy. No stereotyping.
+1 esp if you're looking for long term

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05-03-2013 , 02:22 AM
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Originally Posted by THE Priest
Messaging woman with the right context won't come off creepy if you are saying the right things. Also depends if you are looking to hook up or a relationship. 35 male 23 female is very easy to hook up with, not so much for a LTR
As a 34-yo male, I have found 23-yo girls much easier to hook up with (once we are actually on a date) than 34-yos. I haven't found either particularly amenable to a relationship (the only successful LTR I've had from online dating started when she was 26 and I was 31).
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05-03-2013 , 02:32 AM
I'm joining Match in the next couple of days. Copy paste OKC profile?
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05-03-2013 , 02:44 AM
I've also decided I'm going to state in my profile that I'm a professional poker player.
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05-03-2013 , 03:20 AM
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Originally Posted by garcia1001
If you guys don't like drama, I highly recommend only dating people that are 26 years or older. In my opinion girls below that age are all crazy. No stereotyping.
And I've found that most single women above the age of 30 are a little crazy.
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