uh lol i have a friend that goes and msgs random guys in the women's section on bumble. she seems to get a kick out of it? she says many the guys are looking for lady friends XD

I might be missing something but whenever someone appears in my beeline I just swipe left or right on them and they either disappear or join my queue as normal.

He said they never appear for him to swipe. I've never had that problem after expanding my preferences to see literally everyone so I don't know how to fix it.

Ok I guess I’m a legacy user then, as when I go into the beeline it says ‘these people would like to meet you. Swipe their photo right to match with them, or left to politely pass’.

Whose to say what's going on with that. I've been messing with the filters/app some to see if I can make them appear but to no avail.

No biggie though. Pretty much everyone who appears in my beeline pushes 250lbs+. I would never date an obese woman. Hell, I wouldn't date someone that weighs more than I weighed when I was tiny in high school (unless she is just super tall). Apparently they wouldn't date me either though since even the moderately overweight don't seem to appear in my beeline much. I would think I'd be a real catch for someone like that but my results on bumble tell a very different story.

Also, what's up with all these women's profiles that say "I'm still not over...Jack's death in Titanic, there was room for 2." Get a life losers. It's a ****ing movie that came out in 1997.

It means they're a hopeless yet completely rational romantic.

So this one 41-year-old Chinese woman who came over to my place for dates twice, making out the first date and going all the way the second. She said she had a great time and we talked about her coming over again but she canceled and then was ghosting me. I last heard from her a month ago. I tried to reengage with Christmas approaching, proposing that she come by and see the holiday light display you can see from my place and take a walk out to a nice Christmas tree. She didn't respond. But at 1:30 am on Christmas Eve/Christmas she sends me a text with Merry Christmas and a pic of her in a sexy Christmas outfit. Then she goes right back to ghosting me. I don't get it.

Then the 25-year-old from Shanghai, she was all over me on first meeting and I expected sex when she came over last Sunday. We had been exchanging sexual texts daily during the week. But instead she lets me know that the day before she had seen a guy for the second time and she's falling for him. Even though they had not yet had sex, because she waits when she really likes a guy. But she hadn't felt this way about a guy since 2006 (when she was 11, if you do the math). And so she wasn't going to sleep with anyone else right now. One of the ways she became sold on him is he showed her how her birthdate and his are perfectly aligned for love and friendship. And he said that's never happened before! Dude is totally running game on her, right? No guys are that into astrology for real. Just days before I had actually brought up that I thought she let what she read about being an Aries influence her personality. At first, I bit my tongue when she brought up astrology, but she did it so damn much that I couldn't take it anymore.

Anyway, I'm seeing another Chinese woman on Sunday. But this one was born here, unlike the other two. And she blows them both away in terms of looks. She's 34 and a real hottie, so I'm looking forward to it. But she said she's just out of a relationship and wants to take things slow. She is coming to my place and we're going to go for a walk, so we'll see.

Then early next week there's an actual white woman who wants to come by and meet me at my place. I don't know what to think about her poor choices for pics, but she at least seems fit.

The 41 year old was probably drunk, it explains a lot.

heckin f'n racist Batman, I feel so sorry for all these women you date


not to mention her poor choices in men!

or maybe you are just really good at deception

You would be a real catch for anyone. The problem is you're WAY too picky.

You only want Aces. Why not start off with some suited connectors and see what happens? If it doesn't work out then it's just practice for when your big hand comes along.

Some real incel vibes in this place

I'm just making fun of myself. Some of my friends ask me why I never date white women.

She probably sent it to lots of guys.

Those two idiots sound like they are made for each other.

That's great!

and so is that!

Are suited connectors 250+ lbs? I really have no desire to spend time with a bunch of random women. While I can come across as extroverted, I am an introvert by nature and feel my life is better without those people in it.

Well, the Sunday meeting was disappointing. She arrived an hour late, used the valet parking in my building but then instead of checking in at the front desk and being sent up to my place she walked outside and called me saying she was outside. So I went down and met her, picked up Starbucks across the street and then went on our walk. I did find her to be just what I like physically. She liked the Christmas tree and area I took her. The conversation was going ok but was a little weird. She told me she liked horror movies so I asked what was her favorite. She said she didn't really have a favorite. I followed with well what are some you like? She thought and said none came to mind at the moment. She had previously told me she was going to Nashville in a couple days to visit her sister, but now she tells me that it's for three months! She's moving out of her place and then will find a new place when she gets back. She's also twice been engaged but never married. That's got to be some kind of red flag.

Anyway, we get back to my place and I say come up for a few to see my place and we'll check out the next holiday light show that's outside my place. But she says she is already late for dinner with her parents.

JFC, she's got more red flags than china.

You definitely dodged a bullet.

You should have pulled the chute when she was an hour late.

I would give eriana blanco an hour, maybe.

Some decent 34 year old? Neh.

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Eh, she texted at 2:50 asking if she could be here at 4 instead. I was fine with that. Gave me extra time to get ready. Then she texted at 3:45 saying there was an accident on the freeway and sending a pic of the bumper-to-bumper traffic. She was coming from farther and the opposite direction from what I expected. I found it more bothersome that she couldn’t name one horror movie she liked!

Going to meet at least one more before the new year, but I’m not too optimistic I’m going to like her. Maybe she’ll be a pleasant surprise to balance things out.

It sounds like the 41 year old is married, i lived in china for 5 years and shagged countless married chicks - they have zero conscience.

Number 2 - Chinese girls are really into astrology, they'll ask you the year you were born and your star sign. But to be honest if she really liked you that probably wouldn't get in her way. Move on.

Number 3 - Most Chinese girls say they want to take things slow, especially when they're coming over to your house on first date. In Chinese culture this isn't good and would be frowned upon on as a society. In other words theyre conscious about it and trying to say they're not a slut. But they are.

My advice for dating in China would be, if you're into Chinese chicks and open to getting into a relationship try to find girls that are westernized eg. lived/studied abroad.
In China everything works oppositely, they say yes they mean no, everything is about building an image (miÃ*nzi) of niceness, wealth and modesty without any moral compass
Even this smilie face means angry.

Do you play poker there? Where are you based?

I’m in Los Angeles. There’s just a lot of Chinese women here. I actually did cross my mind the first one could be married. Well, Shanghai did make out with me for half an hour on our first meeting and then talk to me about sex for the next week while she was on her period. She really just met this other guy who duped her with the astrology connection. She’s told me some interesting things about how in Shanghai the gender roles are reversed and men are expected to watch the house while women make the money and are more sexually dominant. Third one was born here and isn’t very Chinese culturally.

This was strange. For like the last three days of 2020 through today, my regular Hinge feed looked like the standouts section. Every single woman was attractive. This compared to what I said previously about Hinge, where I had to go through like 100 to find one who was semi-attractive. This started after I changed my Hinge settings to a maximum distance of 4 miles. Usually I don't even look through Hinge profiles because it takes too long to find any I like, but I'll get a few open likes a day. I got zero open likes over this period but maxed out on liking 7 five days in a row, which I never did before. And I matched with 10 of them, all attractive, all within four miles of me, 4 who live downtown, 6 Asians. But today I finally hit the limit of no more women left to be specifications. So I extended the max distance from 4 to 6 miles and it's right back to being all uggos.

So how many hit you up?

Doesn't matter if you're in the Playboy mansion if no one talks to you.

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All of the Asian ones of course. They love calling Gaddy Daddy.

Well, 8 of the 10 have exchanged messages with me so far. But the virus raging in Los Angeles makes things difficult. One showed interest in going for a walk but said she was too tired one day and asked if I could do the next morning, but I said I would be sleeping until noon. Two said they're not really meeting anyone right now and asked about doing a FaceTime date. I don't really like FaceTime dates.

Another, it turns out we met a little over a year ago. Hinge recommended us in their most compatible function, but I didn't realize we had met when I liked her. But she remembered all about me, including where I live. And she lives two blocks away. So I think there's some good hookup potential there.

:P Even my regular is 1/4 Asian with 3/4 Latina. And my ex, though 100% Mexican, minored in Asian studies, spent a semester in Tokyo and often was mistaken as Asian.

Do you notice a big difference in personality based on culture, or are they all just American? I love both Asian and Latin, and find myself torn between the two. Although I tend to go more towards Vietnamese and Filipino verse your like of Chinese it would appear.