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Originally Posted by splashpot
Don't girls have to assume that if a guy is being nice to her, he wants her?
Um, no? There are far more male/female friendships than there are relationships in the world. They usually involve people being nice.
Some girls are nice to everyone and don't see anything meaningful in guys being nice to them. Beautiful girls in particular have LOTS of guys being nice and they just assume that's how the world is. Usually these are the kind of girls that shyer guys get infatuated with. So they have a whole string of male admirers who assume she's interested (because she's nice) who the girl actually has no interest in. It's quite funny, especially if the girl is a bit oblivious.
More like, lol guyz. Best way to sleep with a girl is to be up front, not sidle your way in by going to business events or hanging out with her. No one likes a sidler. The brain of an attractive, nice girl has "friends" and "potential lovers" categories in it. The latter can be the former but the former once established is just about never the latter. It's just a consequence of having to deal with an army of interest. What you do in the first hour of meeting will determine if you make it into the latter category. Best thing you can do if you messed up the first hour is to be a good friend, and use her to meet other girls.
Last edited by Truthsayer; 05-01-2013 at 08:48 PM.