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Originally Posted by youtalkfunny
I need to quit reading this thread. It's causing a crisis in confidence, an area where I had no trouble just a week ago.
I hate to use a poker analogy, but this thread is exposing some leaks in your game. Fixing leaks is the easiest thing to do. It's finding them that's the hard part. If you are open-minded about what you have been doing wrong, then you will be able to grow from it and become MORE confident because of the advice in this thread. That woman was clearly into you.
The first thing you need to do is admit that you made some pretty obvious mistakes that caused you to fail and learn from them so you don't make them again.
Here are some rules for you to follow:
1. Be artful in your messages. Next time you write a 50 word reply, ask yourself if you could say it in 10. It's not what you say. It's how you say it.
2. Be confident in your messages. Never talk about your insecurities. It's a big red flag for women and shows you lack confidence.
3. Never EVER talk about your feelings with a woman you haven't even been with yet. Again, big red flag that you are willing to give yourself away so easily. Nothing good can ever come from it.
4. Don't be vulgar. Never use terms like pussy or rubbing one out unless they use them first.
5. LISTEN. To women AND to the advice in this thread.
6. Post the next one to continue the learning process.