You still gotta be careful even when her actions match her literal words. I've had sex with two very pretty women in their 20s, one asian one not, who asked me to literally punch them in the face during sex. One girl I knew well the other I didn't know at all -- I quickly declined.

I enjoy rough sex and if a really kinky girl says she's up for choking and face slapping and impact play I'm down for a good time, but what's your line when the girl above turns out to be crazy and tells the cops 'he punched me in the face and raped me?'

Blow jobs are my alltime favorite thing. Vag is great but the mouth and tongue and lips [and throat in addition] are much more skilled and manipulating your penis. Most girls love doing it and I've also heard some tell me it feels empowering. I also enjoy the view from standing over them when they're naked. And it really gets the submissive ones damn wet.

But I totally get if you're only orgasming once you want the P in V.

I have almost never asked for consent for anything (except anal related), certainly not for each action, and I've never had a girl ask me for consent either. I think I am in the camp of 99.9% of people on earth in that way.

I recall asking for consent on anything past kissing with 4 of last 5 I dated/hooked up with - though I had prior knowledge of at least 3 of them being in abusive relationships/had been raped beforehand (didn't ask, was told unsolicited...)

I don't fark them just jerk off looking at them. Saving money brah. Cant afford condoms and or doctor bills and pills.

Can't get 'em pregnant if all you do is jerk off while looking at them.

#SCIENCE

Seems like a waste of good semen. #prolife

Can we really say it's good semen without tasting it?

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It’s all about color and consistency.

I met my wife on Bumble almost four years ago, she was 24 I was 33. Chin up soldier, plenty of 20 somethings looking for an established man piece

This made me lol.

#Incel

I’m seeing chicks 10+ years younger than me consistently. However if you think you can or think you can’t you’re probably right.

ffs man, change your avatar

I’m on Tapatalk only when using this so I barely see anyone’s avatar and don’t really associate anyone through their avatar so I couldn’t care less about mine or how it’s received so yeah, will probably never happen.

Carl must live on, and if it’s only through my avatar then so be it.

Hola boys! I've been away from 2+2 for a while because real life got super busy. I'm still with Mexican Johnny Depp though - its getting close to a year now. It was an interesting summer. He basically decided he wanted everybody to know about us. All the responses were super positive. I think he was most nervous about his Mom, who is a conservative, Catholic, Mexican woman, but when he told her about us she said "If she loves you, then I love her", which is about the best response we could have hoped for. His two kids like me too, mainly because I play Fortnite with them. I think his friends were initially a bit surprised and had questions for him, but they came around pretty quickly.

The funniest is that we had a double date with his ex-wife and her new boyfriend. It was a very "Bay Area" thing of us to do. His ex and I are in very similar STEM fields - MJD obviously has a type. Her first reaction to me (even though she knew I was in STEM) was definitely a kind of "look at my ex-husband with his new bimbo" and to be honest, I kind of played along with it. But then she started bragging about this big grant she'd just heard she'd got (like she heard immediately before dinner) and she turns to me and says something pretty condescending like "do you have these grants in your field?", and I was able to say, "Yeah...I've got three of them". After that, she was a bit less condescending . MJD told me that she later described me as a Chingona, which literally means ****er I think, but which he assured me meant "badass". Either way - it was the kind of impression I wanted to leave on an ex-wife!

So, yeah, I'm really in love, and I guess this is my first serious relationship since my divorce. There are still occasions when I get bemused by my new gender role. As an example, we went up to Tahoe over Labor day weekend, and I wanted to go in my car - its a muscle car, versus his minivan. But I realized I couldn't drive without emasculating him, especially as I'd refused to go in his car. I've never let someone else drive my car, so it was weird handing him the keys, but I gotta say that I got used to it pretty quickly, especially when I could drink at dinner without worrying about driving home .

So has anything exciting happened in the last couple of thousand posts?

Few threats of burials, other than that not much.

Congrats on the relationship success, sounds pretty great

congrats and man... double date with the ex wife... i can't possibly imagine

the entire time i keep playing in my mind whether or not this thing would have played out the same 50 or even 10 years ago, it's pretty amazing how quickly we're shifting perceptions and acceptances

you don't have to answer this, but from my lolsample size i thought that majority wanted to shed old life and move on fresh and was pretty surprised how open you were, just assumed it was more an "these are my internet friends who i'd share things with differently" but it seems like you're that open with everyone so i'm beginning to wonder if my sample size or you are the more representative versions, i spend most my life on the road and often abroad so i'm somewhat behind on the times in the US cultural zeitgeist

i wouldn't worry about the emasculation thing too much, you're 100% right that if he was always the passenger that would be an issue but if you're driving not because there is a rule he can't drive but because you want to drive your own car that should be fine - but then again that feels much less about traditional gender roles and more about how awful it would make someone feel if their own partner couldn't trust them behind the wheel

Congrats! And yah, una chingona is a positive. A badass seems like the most accurate translation from my limited understanding.

Chingon has been described to me as “bad ass” so chingona probably gona mean that for a female.

Just jerk off hard and proud. Fun these b.itches and gays hitting on ya.

Thanks guys! I'm also surprised at how positive its been for us - in some ways, I think there is more stigma for a straight guy to date a trans woman than there is actually being a trans woman. Being in the Bay Area helps for sure. But also he's an artist who makes a living as a graphic designer, and all his friends are artists/graphic designers, and I think that's a community that embraces the novel and edgy. He even admitted as much - a couple of weeks ago he told me that early on there was a novelty factor, but then he fell in love with me, and now he rarely even thinks of me as trans .

When I first came out, which was five years ago now, I had a lot of internalized transphobia, and I was pretty ignorant of trans women. I just couldn't imagine anybody ever dating a trans woman, and so I didn't think I'd ever be with anyone. And I kind of maintained that attitude, even though every good looking trans woman seemed to have a husband or boyfriend in tow. I'd make excuses in my head like "they are prettier than me", "they must have transitioned earlier in life", "they are more passable", "they don't have my deep voice" etc. But I realized that was no different from what a lot of my cis, female friends do - come up with reasons why they are the ones that are going to be perpetually single. And I've had cis friends who've struggled with dating for all sorts of reasons - having an artificial limb, having scoliosis, being bipolar etc - so I realized that in the spectrum of things, being trans is not actually that bad.