What's the best way to let someone down gently in this spot? We had a couple dates, she was very into it, I was too (a lot of intense drunken games of rummy which she actually knew intricate strategy to) and we hooked up. The hookup was good, I left with us both very transparently feeling positively about things, but her reaction since I've really not liked. She texted me that night saying she wished we had taken it slower, and I think any hint of regret after hooking up sucks, especially after she was very clear about wanting to beforehand, and is a huge red flag of someone not having their **** together for dating. She's since snapchatted me several naked photos and a slew of rapid fire random unanswered status updates. I like my relationships boring, and not volatile. Is it really to just shut off all responding, or to text something to the gist of I'm not interested anymore (and if you do text, what do you text?). I know you're not obligated to say jack ****, but I'm curious what the generous "let down easy" route would be if I wanted to take it, because those were some damn fun games of rummy and she was nice enough. Plus sometimes the let down easy route is still to just shut it down immediately and I'm not good at realizing that, which is why I was curious. Feel free to also say I'm being weird and should be more open to the girl.
Here's my line which is way more than necessary and probably just leads her on annoyingly and isn't kinder at all: