Depends on which girl! Your mother is quite easy, but others not so much.

O snap, someone call for an ambulance. We got a burn victim here.

Got himmmmm

It's easy when you use Meetup! Maybe he's a rep for the site.

Meeting a girl at a Meetup sounds like a really good idea TBH. The only ones I've been to have been business-related and >90% dudes, but I might try to branch out.

Doesn’t sound like hiking is gonna be anytime soon. Gonna ask the above girl to cook dinner at my place. Either she agrees and it’s game or I can leave this behind and move on.

That's kinda the thing, im really unsure what it is that draws the type of woman to cheat to me.

Although someone on here once said "nothing is more easier than a bored wife"

I don't do online at all anymore, I just never had success at it.

And to be honest, I've just had a good run lately.

A good run consisting of chubby 4s-5s , three different women, couple times for two, once for one(so far) in about a one month span.

Most of the time I'm failing miserably at hooking up with ANY woman.

It just so happens that right now, I don't care, so maybe not being self conscious is actually a benefit?

I try to be approachable in everyday situations, but ofc, ive picked up these middlers at a bar.

Any advoce i could offer is rudimentary, be well dressed, be courteous to everyone, you really never know who's watching.And be outgoing, don't be afraid to strikeup conversation with someone, even just smalltalk can help give you social skills and confidence.

Now as to why i can spot a cheating woman? I'm at a loss, but i know it has to be some vibe i give off cause it happened way to much.

I'm not actively looking for married women, they are drawn to me for sex, and in the past it was fun, they were decent looking and just easier than other possibilities.

I think it would be interesting on both sides to find out what kind of men draw married women and what type of married woman would look for such a man.



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Are you typically out alone?

I've had this thing as well. I think married women are looking for easy and safe targets. You don't need to have money, as they already have that taken care of. In fact they are often buying the drinks. Maybe an easy going vibe helps, she won't want a guy who is going to cause trouble for her marriage later. And she knows she can't compete for the guys who can pull younger women. I've not only got hit on by married and LTR having women in bars, but also at work, on dating sites, in chat rooms, etc. Single women that I would be interested in wanted nothing to do with me for most of my life.

Yep, easy pickins perhaps?

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Pretty much what Tim said about someone who won't blow up their life. Unlikely you will have a friend of a friend etc etc. Just takes you for a guy looking to ****.

I used to look for slightly older women who were alone at the mid 20s/early 30s trendy bars when we went out. Almost always was someone looking to cheat, or newly divorced

I’m completely confused at the circumstances of how a wifey is out at a bar without their husband: were these ladies a part of a girls night out? These type of women actually go to bars solo? My mind is sorta blown right now getting my mind around rando wifeys hitting up bars/clubs solo.

You see I haven’t been apart of the bar scene for a very very long time and I’m out of the loop.

I could definitely start going out to eat solo and go to cafes... any TRs on having success at either?

One thing to remember, cheaty chicks hang together.

So it could be a girls night out and the opportunity is not off limits.

Plus the hubby could be clueless and/or doesn't care if she does get some on the side.

Could be a cuck or just tired of banging her. She could have let herself go after a couple of kids so he figures if she leaves him he hasn't lost much.

These are actually things I've heard and seen, so really there's no telling why she's looking.

And it's surprising sometimes when the chick you wouldn't think does that kind of thing, does.

Or rather, dissapointing. When you find out one of your friend's wife is DTF.

Seen that too many times.

But I'm not that scummy yet, i may have seen it, but i don't really know the guys as friends if i was interested in their significant other.

Bear in mind most of these observations was in my mid 20s and 30s.

But it doesn't seem a lot has changed.

Except maybe its more common?

Im too old for the good stuff, but just observation makes me think a decent 30ish could do pretty well for himself if he was so inclined.

I was married for a few years, but had a good run just after the divorce cause thats when you find out how many of your ex's friends are shady.

Seems like there was at least one or two that didn't need much prompting.







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Interesting stuff, as a divorcee, I was actually very surprised that a lot of women who pursued me fairly unabashedly while I was unavailable lost all interest when I was newly available and several others I had no idea liked me just came out of the woodwork

At what stage do you disclose that you are divorced?

I used to just get that out of the way early but now think that game the wrong impression I was still trying to regain that or something.

I've also run into a lot of problems with other stuff. Let's say someone wants to go somewhere and asks if you've ever been. You've in fact been there in your honeymoon. Do you lie. Do you just say you've been or should you disclose that's where your honeymoon was etc so she doesn't feel misled if that's a place she wants to go with you etc etc.

Lol, there's that happening too.

I figured i had a couple of sure things cause they basically would dry hump me when the wife wasn't around but once I was available, I wasn't desirable at all.

That is another subject for discussion.

As far as disclosure of divorce, i never really worried about it and as far as going somewhere you went when you were married, i would think it doesn't matter unless its owned by your ex in-laws

I imagine most of this depends on when you get divorced.

Being mid 20s,mid 30s or mid 40s can make a hell of a difference then throw kids in there, it can color perception.

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yeah no kids or anything

just that when i've ended it with some other women after a few dates i'd later hear through friends of friends that they really liked me and were going to wait until i was over the divorce and ready to see them again - i've heard this a few different times but i'm literally very happy to be single, that was several years ago, no kids or anything, i know a lot is probably them just trying to justify getting dumped and i know they really liked me but there's definitely a pattern so i figure i must be broadcasting incorrectly and that gives the wrong impression

and the other part, i think this is more to do with the absurd relationships i've been having but where and what i've done with my ex seems to be no go territory for them. i can kind of understand that, like I get preferring not to go somewhere if I've had a romantic vacation there before, but to forever rule out a country seems a bit over the top. i've personally had mostly very casual relationships fossilkid style my whole life along with 2 very lengthy ones, one which we realized we were only together out of inertia (the divorce) and the most recent toxic 3 year one so my sample size is lol and I often worry about whether i'm dealing with one offs that will never again arise or if this is somewhat typical.

and yeah when i was in a relationship, i had some women in our friend group literally proposition me and straight up tell me they wanted me to discreetly bang them etc etc and then once i was single they were cold as hell, i'd approach them and try to talk to them like normal and they were just totally disinterested in even talking, it's like they were only interested in the thrill of banging a married guy only

and then all these women who i knew but barely ever spoke to just suddenly appeared so very interested in whatever i had to say all of a sudden - it was quite the surprise

top one is photoshopped like crazy, beware

I agree 1000%

Yeah go with the brunette. If she's new to the sugar baby thing you can get her groomed.


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What happened to that middle eastern girl? That girl was insane in my books.

Question to the poker pros, but more towards online poker pros:

Have you guys thought of moving to different hot spots for college breaks/summer? Like Daytona, Cancun, random places in the Carribbean (wherever Canadian/US girls go for their "girls only vacay"), and Ibiza/wherever Euro girls go for vacay in the spring/summer?

Based on extensive research watching 90 Day Fiancé, women who travel to the Caribbean are mostly looking for the BBC

can we post pics of that for science

My buddy's sister showed me some of the offerings on her Bumble in Greensboro, NC, and they did NOT disappoint. Sadly this was the only screenshot I got.

I hate it when this happens.