it's possible her packaging says "eggslut" as well

we can do a haiku to get the ball rolling again

Plain because you could
Boxed water is not better
I prefer eggslut

She is at eggslut.
Consider this a near miss.
Where is our foatie???

Tonight is probably the first time ever in my life when a girl who a lot of people would consider at least 1 notch and maybe 2 hotter than me has in no uncertain terms made it clear she’s got the feels for me and isn’t seeing anyone else - after 2 dates

Uncertain territory

Lock it down, unless there is serious craziness.

A little x-post from PGC, where I started a mini-blog:

As for my personal life, it's getting quite serious with the girl who started as a FWB. I'm not sure how much I've mentioned about her ITT, but quite frankly, she's amazing. We surpassed the 3 month mark and I was starting to get feelings so ~2 weeks ago I asked her if she's thought about taking the next step. She seemed open to the idea, but not ready to commit just yet. Well, the following week she had an adorable way of wanting to take the next step. When we were lying in bed she says "Can I tell you something? I don't just like you, I reeeeally like you". (translation is a bit tricky cuz Spanish)

I could write a novel on the things I like about this girl, but I'll keep it short. She's 25 but has a very evolved outlook on life, seems much more mature that I was at that age (I'm 35 now). Really liberal, well thought out viewpoints on politics and life in general. She also doesn't seem to want kids, which I think is a plus for me. She's not the hottest girl in the world, but I find her very attractive and she looks great naked. And she's in incredible shape, she did the CDMX marathon last week.

Lastly, she's just incredible in the sack and has a motor that might surpass even mine. Just has an insatiable appetite, but just the right amount. She's gotten me to do things I didn't think were possible. (i.e. I finish inside of her, but am still so turned on I just keep going and finish again)

Most important of all, communication is top notch. We've discussed everything under the sun: past relationships, other sexual escapades, fantasies, etc. We've discussed a bit the idea of an open relationship. I'm on the fence, but feel like whatever we decide will work ok b/c the communication and openness is there and neither of us are jealous.

So yah, pretty excited to see where this goes. It will be nice to get out of the Tinder grind. Of course, the last week or 2 I've been tempted by some quality matches, but between poker and this girl, I haven't had the desire to meet another girl.





A little congrats gift for completing the marathon. Balloon, gummies, chocolates, and stuffed animal. I've found the stuffed animal to be a great gift. This girl and past gf's have absolutely loved it and it will always be next to them in their bed reminding them of you.

Thanks for all inputs, I will be more zen moving forward and push through.

In honor of rickroll, I’ve sent the Haiku. Will let y’all know when I get ummatched.

Judging by her pics and conversation, she seems like she has a plain oatmeal personality - you'll do better

Damn, anxiously hoping for a happy ending.

LMAO!

quality stuff shuffle and just wanted to thank you for the detailed TR

really eye opening, I would have just assumed it was basically a loophole for prostitution and it seems much less degenerate than I'd have expected

really think you could you ever get into a serious relationship with someone you met there? i imagine that would prove quite difficult but if it's a big age gap trophy wife situation anyway then it's probably no different than meeting them through traditional avenues

ps i've heard that too about the age from others as well, as someone who's 36 and been in a relationship since 34, that's a very scary thought for me given i may be pre-filtered out. I have heard others lie about the age to the site and then do the "oops it loaded that way and don't know how to change it" or just admit they did it to get past age filters - i don't think playing dumb is very smart but probably better choice for first impressions

Update: haiku worked wtf, all hail rickroll

will read shuffles posts later but I hope he boinked the blondie a few times

Great TR, amazing really.

I just turned 40 and can clearly state that I’ve been ranged out by a lot of women on dating apps. There’s a lot less women to swipe on and there’s a big difference dating at 39 to dating at 40. It feels like I played a game of musical chairs and I’m the guy still standing when the music stops.


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There's always the option of being a salt daddy.

Shuffle--

That was the most interesting TR I have seen here in a long time. Thanks a lot. That Asian girl in LA, good lord.

My initial reaction is that SA sounds a lot more popular and a bit more expensive than I would have guessed.

I'm gonna ask my female friends if they know anyone who's done this. I'm skeptical as most of my friends are at least 5 years older than the girls youve shown here, but maybe I can find one that has a TR.

yeah i would have figured it was a "i'll pay your utility bills and take you traveling sometimes"

would have never expected it to be a monthly allowance and of that level

Chances are those girls won’t tell you if a friend of theirs has done a sugar baby relationship type deal from that site. No chance at all that she tells you if she’s been a sugar baby herself.

Is gaddy still moving to CDMX? If so, he should definitely give Seeking a shot here. Sounds like it'd be an absolute gold mine and girls here would be expecting maybe 1/15th what their LA and NYC counterparts want.

His current FWB sounds a bit like a sugar relationship anyway and he could probably upgrade to a rotation of 3-4 girls for the same financial or lower outlay. The stories would probably be great and we could rename this the Seeking Relationships thread featuring Shuffle and gaddy

Seriously tho Foatie welfare check maybe needed considering my dude hangs in Baltimore

Thing is, when I was 28 and started online dating for the first time after a long-term relationship had ended i expected this situation of being fine when I was 35+ as 'guys have more time' but I agree with you, at least if you mean there are fewer ~25 year old age band girls who are interested.

What I have found though, is that there are way more 30+ women who are interested, so in lieu of the youthfulness there is a tradeoff for more sexual maturity and natural confidence that naturally comes from ageing.

The dream for me (and probably everyone) is to find one of those very emotionally mature, ambitious 25 year old women who is 'tired of boys' and want an older guy with more life experience. I thought this type would be easy to find, but it actually isn't, the main issue being that girls in the main don't really want anything too serious at that age and just aren't very emotionally mature in general at that point. I did go on a date with one a few weeks ago but she showed up fat and it was all over from the start.

As mentioned above I'm at a point where I'm 2 dates in with this hot 35 year old and she is super keen. But I also had a date with a 5'11 leggy blonde that is the sort you just need to get in the sack and have those long legs wrapped around you. But the first girl told me she wasn't dating anyone else and I said I wasn't too. Am I too much of a softie for feeling bad about this?

not enough guys have experienced and/or appreciate having sex with a woman this tall - if guys are discussing how such and such girl at the other end of the bar is hot and i point out "but she's probably like 5'2" max" i usually get a bunch of weird looks though

a few years ago randomly banged a 6'2" girl, didn't even really like her that much or anything, but I couldn't view short women the same way again, contrasted heavily with my random sampling that typically included much shorter women

as a 6'2" guy I don't think I could ever date below 5'8" anymore and ideally seeking 5'10" or taller

i think a lot of it is just relative sizing, one of the few benefits for short guys that never comes up they often attain a sexual leverage equilibrium that allows for far greater sex than tall guys banging the same girl

This seems like a really weird post to me. Is this an actual concept?

There's only 1 time in my life I can remember height being an issue during sex and that was with a French girl who was nearly my height, but had an insanely long torso. So in missionary position I was unable to kiss her and I remember finding that annoying b/c I like to kiss.

My current girl is about 10 inches shorter than me and I haven't once thought it to be an inconvenience during sex. Even in doggy, we seem to line up quite nicely, so it's not like she has to boost herself up on pillows to line up or anything. In missionary, I'm still able to kiss her just fine or sometimes I just cradle her head between my elbows, which I quite like also. There are also positions that are more beneficial with a smaller girl and I like the feeling of being able to throw her around easier.

Out of the bedroom, I haven't found kissing to be uncomfortable. I'd suspect maybe it's more of an annoyance for her, being on her toes a lot. Her head also fits snugly right under my chin when we're both standing and I've grown to love that position as well, holding her tight and resting my chin on her head. It's also far easier to have her sit on my lap and kiss compared to a larger woman.

After dating a bit more in México where the majority of women will be in the 5' to 5'8" range I'd even venture to say that I prefer a much shorter woman now than one nearly my height. My ex was also very short and I never once found that to be a nuisance either.

Tall girls definitely a solid talking point, I used to think I didn't like them but I can't get enough of them now.

Nothing like wrestling with a tall girl with a great body. I'm 6'1 (and a half) and 5'8 is probably about optimal for me, I had an ex of that height with a body to die for and even the small things like cuddling them from behind and spooning in bed just feel better.

the only time when I'm willing to go for a UK size 12 (which would be a US size 8 I believe?) is when it's a tall girl with a naturally bigger skeleton. My ex was a borderline size 12 and she looked great.

From your description it sounds like your sample size is limited - anecdotally, a lot of the women you share photos of with exception of that one i raved about all seemed very short, which is probably par for CDMX

i don't know how to describe it but the dynamics are just different.

maybe I'm alone here, but I'm guessing that - as you described - you're so accustomed to shorter women that you've adapted to it. so a one off with a taller woman would probably be more awkward than rewarding. A lot of your old habits would have to be thrown out and you'd half to turn in some old favorite positions and angles for new ones. everything from spooning to hugging and coitus would need to be re-adjusted before you got it down to gto optimization

I personally found the transition a little awkward at first but once I got used to it, I've basically sworn off short women forever

while my forays with taller women were better, they were also a bit awkward at times because of unsure how to position each other etc, but once we got the hang of it was awesome - of the top women I've been with in terms of sexual quality... they've all been tall

I've since had plenty of more practice with current girlfriend (5'10") and definitely recall it took a good month or so to really get in sync but by far best sex of my life - which is basically why i'm still with someone who I actively think of as "current" girlfriend despite being together nearly 3 years

also amazons in tight tennis dresses galloping round the court. And tall girls in onepiece swimsuits