If you have the time and/or are bored go get some coffee with a 5 or 6. You may meet a new friend who has more in common with you than wanting to smash sex parts together, she may even be a gamer

There aren’t 1-10s. There are only 1s and 0s. 1s you would, 0s you wouldn’t. Keep everything simple, then it becomes simple.

thansk for the msgs above I appreciate it, question time. I've been lurking this thread since inception, as well as the thread in the SL forum, I don't remember this being a big talking point. if youre trying to smash and profiles are saying no hookups or not looking for fwbs, I take that as it doesn't matter right? I know times have changed with tinder/POF and that since 2017 people are more guarded and tighter than they were back in 11-15( when it was more popping(meaning we didnt see the no hookups or no fwb in profiles as much as we do today). just wondering how often you guys have encountered that in the last 3 years and if that was an obstacle or not? I assume you can still smash first or 2nd date. nothing changes at all even


sneaking update in middle of post since i hope its not me who is killing this thread(times have changed on the forum I understand), i know I need to cut her off and stop msging her BACK. i was bored she texted me and snaped me out of blue a completely SFW selfie with "hi booty" while at work not sure what the **** that was, i was busy for night as I was working as well so responded here and there. near end of night I tell her to take a selfie snap, i said and send it to me, she does, i say good girl and then i get out an hour before her, she repsonds wit lool your turn now, i say nope and that she should come over after work to warm me up, she gets off at 2 am tonight but usually gets off at 7am. she responded with lool that would be nice but i have to take care of kids. dead. you guys are right im just gonna not respond or keep it short, if she evert wants ot hang out, shes gona have to be the one to ask me, bad being in her frame and not in mine

p.s for LURKERS, this may seem awful and non significant comign form me lately since im USING NONE OF THE INFO. but thinking back this is a great thread and if you're struggling in the scene and need almost like a 101, this thread is something you need to plow through. may take you a week+ but alot of just gold from page 1 to page whatever and throughout, from teh TRs to the questions and plays people ask. I truly feel an introvert who is average or even below avg can pick up and learn from this thread.

Or you can keep it even simpler: there are only 1s.

Vegas Tinder is a confirmed honeypot. Batting 1.000 so far as I clicked with my 2nd match. We chit chatted in app around 3pm, made plans for later, she met me at my hotel for drinks at 9, down to business by 11, out by 2. I just opened up the app again and I have 6 more matches. Now that the fun is out of the way, tomorrow calls for a refocus as I have a lot of poker to play.

Good work Foatie. My experience was way worse...though maybe that’s a result of being local.

Did hook up with girl I met Friday though, so there’s that, which is nice.

Haha this guy right here. Huge +1

good **** foatie

Why do you feel you do so well in Vegas on Tinder? Last time I was there didnt prove as fruitful. However I did not pay for it either. Is that the trick? Any other helpful tips would be appreciated. Obviously could be you are younger and better looking too!

I'm not part of the tinder world , but if a gf was going to cheat on her boyfriend , it's while in Vegas or some other destination city.

Lol, thanks for that ground breaking and necessary post.

I don't think it matters what city she decides to cheat in, its more about motivation.

I didn't do well on Tinder in Vegas a few years ago, though I don't remember how hard I swiped. Wonder if I'd improve now with better pictures and a 3 as the first digit of my age, though I'm not exactly single. Bachelor party code(my brother's) in September will be in effect..

Vegas Tinder is the best because people come here to be uninhibited. Women are ready and willing to mix it up. Most of the times, men shoot themselves in the foot before they close the deal or prolong encounters/oversell themselves past that "window" when she's thinking "Yeah, I'll have sex with this guy".

I wouldn't say that I'm a great looking guy, but I speak with a ton of confidence, I love to make people laugh, I pick up on non-verbal cues very quickly, and know how to steer the conversation to where I want it to go. I literally had zero game for the first 20 years of my life until I got into Sales for 9 years. That really boosted my confidence talking to women. You have to close the sale to pay the bills, but a lot of those skills transfer over into your personal relations.

can I ask how old you are?

thats great, the overselling/prolonging stuff sounds eerily familiar to me for some reason..

35.

It doesn't matter how well you speak if they swipe left.

was on a spoof acct, seasme street acct as grover. i msgd her like 3-4 things(ttoal convo back adn forth ) and she responded in a playful way(asked her if shed ever hang out with grover) she said maybe, i asked for her snapchat, i asked her if she saw my real pics woudl she go out with mefor drinks this week, she says she works until 1 am , i msd bummer, she responds back she sfree friday 11. i show her my pics she says im pretty cute, i msg back damn, what do you mean "pretty" cute : p she then responds I meant handsom very handsome, i lik them. and I say am I worthy? and she says yes but shes not very good looking(i would say fact100%), I said dont worry about it , I LIKEY. and that if we are going for drinks friday night and that i woudl msg back the details later.
she says ok, i say goodnight.

i know I have plans friday night when she told me and im going to cancel on her 48hrs beforehand because i really dont think shes that attractive at all on 2nd look. I still want to bang the girl from last week that i was stumlbing over, idk I just want to pin her down and **** her brains out and after that if she blocks me, ill be MORE than ok with that. **** me for being picky when I shoudl be anything but that i think we all would agree. i prolly shoudl try to move this one on saturday instead of friday and get late dirnks over at her area and at en dof night tell her I ant to see her place or something and if thats repulsive she tells me to f off, i dont smash but i move on

edit im shortest mofo ITT(54) so when I tell her my height(as I usually do if its not listed)she might just flake anyways so who cares. im never gogin into a meetup without them knoing hwo short i am. even tho it kills me out of99% of online partner snad also orl partners Ive never given a **** i was this short, i try to make it work in my favor by being "cute" in my interactionds and I can say a lto of things that maybe someone a lot taller than me would as it wou dlbe offensive, espcially in social interactions and whatnot i feel i can be more honest an say wtaver to strangers and people wont **** with me. multiple times in college im talking to someone and I say some things that woudl make someone want to fight me but they just laugh it off or whatnot. my one friend semi jokes and says he thinks i have aspergers tho, he says thats why I dont care what i say or talk about. fasle, i chalk it up o shortness

Try to be taller, and if possible, better looking.

I'd settle for coherent right now, cause pleasure is causing me pain trying to understand.

^This. My brain hurts

I had assumed English was not pleasure’s native language and/or he never finished high school.

It appears my assumption was incorrect based on his college remark, however.

sry my bad. will clean it up

His posts, that name...and everyone still seems to think this isn’t a troll account...

Mch btr, ezr 2 rd.