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Bump. Anyone want to comment on this? Also what's the best way to handle visitors and 4/5 star ratings? Obv send a message but reference the visit in the msg or just send the same msg you would to someone who hasn't visited your profile yet?
I've never paid for the A-list whatever. I don't really see any need for it.
As for how to approach the site, it depends on what your goals are. If you just want to get laid, then don't answer too many questions. I actually like OKC better than Match because you can answer a lot of questions and especially the controversial ones. For example, I don't want to date someone who will only date white people or someone who thinks homosexuality is a sin. So I do answer those.
Also, I'm not sure how much the match % helps. I do think, however, that the enemy percentage is pretty useful. If you have a +30% enemy rating, then they are probably answering a lot of questions in the "wrong" way and you're probably not compatible.
I message anyone I'm interested in regardless of their reply frequency. I've gotten pleny of responses from women who don't reply often and been ignored by women who reply frequently. I just don't pay any attention to it.
I don't pay, so I don't get to see visitors. If you're interested in messaging her, then message her. I would not mention that you saw she visited your profile. Just start a normal convo with her.