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Originally Posted by ImpossibleBoom
What's the oldest and youngest person you guys have gone on a date with? I know everyone's different ages on here so answers will vary depending. Contemplating going on a date with a female much older than myself here.
Dating older women is fine. It's really enjoyable if you are up front with yourself about what you want and they get it also.
I was 19 with a 38 year old. At 24-27, I was with a 50-53 year old, had a 3 year relationship with her, I was out of town for most of it, so it was mainly convenience for when I was in town. She knew that I wanted kids and to be married eventually, she knew that she wasn't the one and didn't want another marriage or more kids.
Now, for the lower end of the spectrum, 99% of my relationships with females under 30 failed. Mainly because their maturity level/bs/drama were well beyond what I would tolerate.
Don't waste your time looking for a super serious relationship with any female who isn't level headed, doesn't have a decent paying job, or who has a ton of drama/flakiness surrounding them. Just do your thing, let relations go on, date who you want. Quantity is probably better than quality when you're younger.
It's very hard to find "that special one" in a strip club or at last call. Be real with yourself and don't be jaded. You'll be happier in the long run.
Having said all of that: if a woman seems flakey and backs out of plans for a first meeting, move on. Don't contact her, if she's interested, she'll contact you. And don't put emphasis on age, just read the signs. There are plenty.
I read a lot of posts here and a lot of the frequent posters are jaded in thinking. Being oblivious is the worst thing you can be.