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Originally Posted by Hoagie
If you haven’t met a single woman off the apps in a year you either have way too high of standards or you’re hilariously bad at talking to girls through an app. It’s probably a combo of both.
I'm pretty sure my standards are low enough; I swipe right on 90% of women.
And again, you don't get the chance to talk to anyone if they don't swipe right on you.
Having had 4 LTRs via online dating in the past, along with lots more of anything from bad first dates to hookups to short-term relationships, I'm definitely not hilariously bad at interacting with women online.
Interaction in words is my strength.
Even before the internet, I met my ex wife through an alternative newspaper dating ad she placed.
The apps do make it more difficult though, as they give so little info about most people that I can't tell if I would want to meet them or not, and often even so little that I don't know what to talk about with her.
Maybe the difference is I'm in a totally different type of dating market than any of you. I'm 49, so looking for women in their 40s to early 50s. Women my age are not looking for hookups, but they also don't bother to make it clear on their profiles what they are looking for, and they still set their standards high when swiping, or else maybe they're joining the system, uploading a picture or two, then never going back to use it. Has anyone attempted to use the apps to date women in their 40s up?