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Originally Posted by chopstick
Fossil - it's too bad for the thread, but congrats to you. Glad it's working out so well. Good job!
Thanks man, it was fun doing the whole speed dating thing, but I think I would have slowed down the pace whether I found someone or not. Just kinda gets old grinding through the same topics on Tinder, then on 1st dates, etc.
I had my 6th date with the yoga instructor, we had a nice Dinner then she slept over at my place, then walked around for a bit and had a lunch and she left. Had sex 4 times and I think she has a very healthy libido, which is an important factor for me. Still can't believe that everything seems so great after 6 dates. She seems so laid back, sweet, mature, it's a great find for me.
Conversation topics got pretty serious at times. My apartment is pretty nice and she lives a more modestly and expressed concerns that it might be tough for her to keep up financially, but I replied that it's something I've thought about and it won't be an issue, and other than wanting a nice, quiet apartment (b/c I play poker, do yoga, and meditate here), I don't really have expensive tastes.
I think she knows that I got around a bit and asked to take an STD test with me. It's an understandable concern. I believe I'm clean other than a girl I slept with about 10 days ago, so it will be a minor sweat. I think she's had very few (maybe no) partners since she broke up a couple year long relationship about a year ago.
It seems kinda fast to be getting into convos this serious, but we both really like each other so I don't mind. I finally deleted all apps last week and haven't seen another girl recently. Don't know if this is moving along way too fast after only 3 weeks and 6 dates, maybe the rules are slightly different when you're in your mid 30s?
We're going on a weekend trip to Puebla next Saturday and I'm really excited.