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Originally Posted by ClarkNasty
I’ve found that if there’s interest after a date and especially after smashing, months or even a year away mean little as long as they haven’t gotten into a relationship.
Yah, you're probably right. I've mentioned to a few girls that I'll be on hiatus for 2.5 months and coming back permanently and none really seem put off by it. One girl who I've tried to meet twice and both meetups fell thru I told "meh, I don't want to meet next weekend b/c I'll be leaving soon after, let's just meet when I get back if we're still interested by then". That just seemed to ignite her interest further and now she's practically begging to meet up before I go.
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Originally Posted by ClarkNasty
Bumble daily extend is like a 100% response getter for me.
For me it's like 50%, but for some reason Bumble has been by far the worst even though there are a decent amount of users compared to Tinder or Happn. Probably just variance.
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Originally Posted by ClarkNasty
Dating in general including on the apps is way harder on women.
I agree. My comment was made in haste, and I'm pretty sure I've even argued the opposite a few times in the past here. Tinder probably blows for hot girls, I think OKC would be much more manageable. Pretty much 100% of guys are gonna swipe right on you, so you have to put in a lot of effort on the front end, then wade through a bunch of mediocre messages.
BTW, Tinder super likes have been insanely good. I've taken a bit extra time to use those on girls who I would think are slightly out of my league, but they've been hitting at a pretty good rate. Kinda wish it wasn't so expensive to buy more, but I guess that's a good thing otherwise their value would plummet. I doubt most guys are using them efficiently though. Probably just wasting them on the top tier girls.