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Originally Posted by Malucci
I think you rule Fossil
Be sure to pass that along to your cute, single friends!
I've just been lucky to meet some wise people along the way and have learned a lot about life indirectly via poker which caused me to branch out into yoga, buddhism, psychology and learn more about why humans think/act in certain ways and how to take steps to change negative habits.
Online dating can be really simple though. I think it is just about
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1) Knowing how to put your best foot forward (good profile, good messages, good photos, knowing how to date, build, and maintain attraction)
2) Recognizing that online dating shouldn't be a life "fix". You should already lead a rich, full life. Online dating, and a great partner is just a complement to that. You shouldn't "need" a partner to be happy. I think this takes a ton of pressure and overthinking out of dating b/c if you find someone great, that's wonderful, and if not, who cares, you have other things going on.
3) Being honest with one's self. If I'm not getting the results I want, then there's probably something with myself I could improve. Or maybe my expectations are out of whack and I should target a more realistic audience than just Victoria's Secret models.
Beyond that, I think the rest is just gravy.
That's not to say I'm some ace in all these areas. Like all of us, I have plenty of areas I can improve on and things I need to work on. I'm just a normal guy who hasn't been afraid to follow my passions, make mistakes along the way, pick myself up, dust myself off, and try to do better the next time.