"Appearance not important"

Now we all know that's probably the biggest lie in a profile.

Either that or amount of income.

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I agree that there's no distinction between whether someone is dateable or LTR material, they are one in the same for me. It seems completely standard though to have a category maybe a point of 2 below "dateable" where you're attracted enough to want to maintain a FWB for low effort sex, but not quite interested in anything more serious.

Thinking that guys are willing to date anyone they're attracted enough to have sex with is the way more bizarre position.

It's not bizarre if you mean the reason he doesn't want to date the women they want to have sex with because of attractiveness reasons. Of course it's reasonable if there are other reasons he doesn't want to date them.

If it is because of attractiveness, I only understand if he is trying to boost his "number" (just wants to f as many women as possible for the sake of saying he did), or if he is really desperate because he just hasn't met anyone "worth dating" recently. If it is the last reason, he probably needs to lower his standards for dating.

PG,

Looks like about 45 (though a bunch of those are in the last few days, so I guess there could be some more replies coming from them).

I'm beginning to think that tall > rich for these broads. Like you can be a big, dumb, goofy, uncoordinated 4, and be pulling 7s if you're 6'2+. It's unbelievable. What I saw last weekend seemed to prove that. I'm assuming that's why all these chicks are throwing their height in the profiles with the caveat "bc that's what seems to matter on here". Stop it. Nobody asked you that, you're just trying to see how tall I am girl.

Both are important, just easier and more socially acceptable to screen for height.

I think the whole tall and rich guys get all the ladies thing is both A. True and B. An excuse for short poors to explain why they're doing so poorly.

I've been blessed with a face like a mackerel, a 5'7 frame that I've managed to fill to a breathtaking 200lbs, and a decidedly average bank account and dick.

All that considered I did very well on tinder and ended up meeting a lady that is taller, better looking, has way more education, and makes more money than me.

Guys need to accept who they are and polish the shiny bits of their lives. Be funny, have good grooming, be respectful and fun. I think it's a lot harder in your early 20's but ime not being a butt hurt self conscious loser is the main character trait women are looking for at 28+.

*Takes extensive notes*

Nice humblebrag.

Had a little cute girl, probably not more than 24 chat me up tonight, compliment me on my looks, and I couldn't take my eyes off her obviously older sister/mom/wife with arguably the largest boobs I've ever seen.

My dumbass was just nodding to whatever she said as I stared at her sister/mom/wife 's big ol juggs sticking straight out cause she had a zeppelin style bra on.

I'm my own worst enemy sometimes.

But what you gonna do, Trump being in office and all that.









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Well, let's say your life depends on it working out in the short term. What's the advice?

When the Roxie or Castro play the Bourne Trilogy or a double feature of something like The Talented Mr. Ripley and Rounders (completely within the realm of possibility), I'll see you there!

My GF and I met a girl off TINDER last night. I was not expecting her to look that good. Solid 8......5'2 120 pounds nice tits and a great looking ass. She's a nurse. She is in the process of getting a divorce. She was in a 9 year relationship with a girl but is interested in guys a little again. It was a fun meet up. I did my thing and had her and my gf laughing hard all night. My gf started escalating the situation a little touching her knee and she was all over it. They kissed a little and she grabbed my gf's crotch. I then moved inbetween them and kissed her. She whispered omg i have to have you two.


At one point i was showing a picture of my gf's tits to this girl. She has the best rack ever btw and after i put the phone down this guy comes over and says "did i just see the most amazing rack ever?" My gf said "no" quickly and was pretty embarassed but he just made a few jokes and then gave me a "right on bro" look as he walked off.

This girl was ready to **** right then but we only had a couple hours and both our kids were at my house. We have a date set up for next saturday at her house so not a date i guess. She sent a couple naked pics after we left. She's banging. I told her I wanted her panties after oir 3 some and she liked that.

Im surprised by all the hits we're getting on Tinder. My girl's hot though so maybe this is the norm.....ill update if i get lucky.....omg one time please!

Whoa. Nice

I never knew until a few years ago that nurses are some of the wildest people to party/hang out with. All the crap they see must make them want to enjoy life while they have a chance.

That is correct and ICU nurses are the wildest of the wild. It's been discussed ITT before.

Yeah that is def how she seems to be looking at it. She even offered her house. Can't wait to get in her. She's never had any kids and the pussy pic she sent looks yummy.....she looks pretty tight. She pulled my girls hair a couple of times too.....my girl was getting pretty worked up as well and when we walked outside she was walking in front of us and my girl turned around and mouthed "OMG look at that ass!" lolol

At 40 years old if I stay with this new girl I have probably 10 years of 3 somes.

I didn't even know Tinder had a setting for couples / threesomes...

We just set up a joint account and put in our description we are a couple looking for a fun girl.

Yeah I always roll my eyes when I see that. there does seem to be some subset of girls who write that because they actually think guys want to know how tall they are.

Anyway.

So this girl I'm dating told me that the one guy she slept with since her last STD test texted her to say he has chlamydia.

She says he'd used a condom but it came off inside her and she had to take a morning after pill.

I had sex with her twice this weekend without a condom because she said she'd just gone on the pill and had been tested and it was clear. So basically her risk of getting it from the guy is limited to that one time the johnny came off. And my risk is those two times I shagged her this weekend.

anyway, i'm getting tested tomorrow morning, but anyone ever had it? I've probably got it right?

Must suck to be short AND unattractive!

BJ,

Waiting a bit is solid.

Assuming no text from her, send her one like: Hey, this place sounds very cool, let's check it out Thursday! Or Friday, Saturday, whatever. Some trendy sounding new gastropub or some **** that's great for Instagram pics, or maybe someplace like riddler champagne bar, whatever new/trendy/hipster place you think she'd like and hasn't been. Maybe just a little fancier than she might go herself or with girlfriends.

These selfie-loving, club-going, social media types can't resist the chance to check out a hot new place.

Edit: and definitely don't reference any of the crap from last night. Nothing worth explaining/discussing; you don't have time to worry about that kind of stupid ****. You're just a chill dude up for having a good time.

Nice







whoa,Look forward to hearing about sat. maybe a pic or 2!

Hello Friends,

Apologies, as I was unable to check this thread for replies yesterday. I see several of you did reply and I will address them now:

This is basically what I have been thinking. I could use the "crap, I did not mean to super like you" line and I think that could work.

Hello friend,

This is a real life situation. My age is none of your business, but I can assure you that I am old enough to have voted for Obama for president.

-O

This is the opposite of PocketInfinities advice, and something that I have been thinking about as well. I feel like it could be kind of a creepy situation. However, I am not sure of a better way to come upon One in a natural setting, which is why I am considering Super liking One.

You can like a mutual friend. I know this because I am friends with One on facebook and I see One in Tinder. However, there is a facebook friends setting that I believe you if turn off, you will not be shown to facebook friends.

-O

No, you probably don't have it. Per-sex act transmission rate could be well less than 1% (and appears to be no higher than ~5% which I'd assume applies only for old people, but could be wrong): https://srconstantin.wordpress.com/2...td-statistics/ (we'll trust the source).

Did you talk to the doctor yet about this or you've just decided you're getting tested? Two things: 1) the CDC does not recommend "routine" testing for men (perhaps due to false positives), so you'd have to discuss with a doctor if two sex acts puts you in the "should be tested" camp. [EDIT after reading more: honestly doubt this should qualify you to be tested, wait until the woman gets tested] 2) it might be too early for it to show up on a test? Look into it.

Despite how much we were terrorized in health classes, you're not very likely to get most STDs from one or two sexual encounters, even when the other person definitely has it. Like, herpes female-to-male is less than 10% per YEAR of sex without protections.

Oh wait lol - just realized this woman doesn't even necessarily have it but is just saying a dude she banged has it.

You don't have it. I would not get tested unless and until she gets tested.

EDIT: Seriously, read up on what the CDC has to say about testing, find out about false positives, etc. From what I read about it in a few minutes just now, I'd actually push back on a doctor who strongly felt I should be tested in your circumstance.

It's not necessarily a given you have it, and even if you do ,the clam isn't bad, at least when I got it from a married woman.

Just antibiotics for a week-ten days.

But if I remember right, it takes a few days to show up in your system, so you could catch it today, test tomorrow and it won't show up.

In any case, good luck



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