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Originally Posted by SandraXII
Yeah I always roll my eyes when I see that. there does seem to be some subset of girls who write that because they actually think guys want to know how tall they are.
Anyway.
So this girl I'm dating told me that the one guy she slept with since her last STD test texted her to say he has chlamydia.
She says he'd used a condom but it came off inside her and she had to take a morning after pill.
I had sex with her twice this weekend without a condom because she said she'd just gone on the pill and had been tested and it was clear. So basically her risk of getting it from the guy is limited to that one time the johnny came off. And my risk is those two times I shagged her this weekend.
anyway, i'm getting tested tomorrow morning, but anyone ever had it? I've probably got it right?
No, you probably don't have it. Per-sex act transmission rate could be well less than 1% (and appears to be no higher than ~5% which I'd assume applies only for old people, but could be wrong):
https://srconstantin.wordpress.com/2...td-statistics/ (we'll trust the source).
Did you talk to the doctor yet about this or you've just decided you're getting tested? Two things: 1) the CDC does not recommend "routine" testing for men (perhaps due to false positives), so you'd have to discuss with a doctor if two sex acts puts you in the "should be tested" camp. [EDIT after reading more: honestly doubt this should qualify you to be tested, wait until the woman gets tested] 2) it might be too early for it to show up on a test? Look into it.
Despite how much we were terrorized in health classes, you're not very likely to get most STDs from one or two sexual encounters, even when the other person definitely has it. Like, herpes female-to-male is less than 10% per YEAR of sex without protections.
Oh wait lol - just realized this woman doesn't even necessarily have it but is just saying a dude she banged has it.
You don't have it. I would not get tested unless and until she gets tested.
EDIT: Seriously, read up on what the CDC has to say about testing, find out about false positives, etc. From what I read about it in a few minutes just now, I'd actually push back on a doctor who strongly felt I should be tested in your circumstance.
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Originally Posted by El Diablo
BJ,
Waiting a bit is solid.
Assuming no text from her, send her one like: Hey, this place sounds very cool, let's check it out Thursday! Or Friday, Saturday, whatever. Some trendy sounding new gastropub or some **** that's great for Instagram pics, or maybe someplace like riddler champagne bar, whatever new/trendy/hipster place you think she'd like and hasn't been. Maybe just a little fancier than she might go herself or with girlfriends.
These selfie-loving, club-going, social media types can't resist the chance to check out a hot new place.
Edit: and definitely don't reference any of the crap from last night. Nothing worth explaining/discussing; you don't have time to worry about that kind of stupid ****. You're just a chill dude up for having a good time.