Online dating thread
05-08-2017
, 11:45 AM
05-08-2017
, 11:47 AM
05-08-2017
, 12:06 PM
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05-08-2017
, 01:07 PM
05-08-2017
, 01:12 PM
05-08-2017
, 01:28 PM
05-08-2017
, 02:37 PM
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None of the above
This is true, and I've milked the musician angle successfully on a few occasions. When I said I've been with a girl this hot maybe 2 or 3 times... I'm convinced that was why. Not in a band currently though.
Sometimes the musician thing really does pay off. One girl I had met online a few years ago - after learning on our 2nd date that her favorite band was Incubus, I went home and learned "Drive". Brought my acoustic to her house after the 3rd date, played it half drunk (probably butchered it, my range is nowhere near Brandon Boyd's) but was having sex with her a mere two hours later nonetheless.
This is true, and I've milked the musician angle successfully on a few occasions. When I said I've been with a girl this hot maybe 2 or 3 times... I'm convinced that was why. Not in a band currently though.
Sometimes the musician thing really does pay off. One girl I had met online a few years ago - after learning on our 2nd date that her favorite band was Incubus, I went home and learned "Drive". Brought my acoustic to her house after the 3rd date, played it half drunk (probably butchered it, my range is nowhere near Brandon Boyd's) but was having sex with her a mere two hours later nonetheless.
05-08-2017
, 03:20 PM
05-08-2017
, 08:22 PM
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Here's a non-online dating story that I would like your thoughts/opinions on:
I met a woman (mid 30s) through a mutual friend and we hung out a few times. She came over to my place twice. We haven't slept together or gotten naked, which was frustrating but also sort of a refreshing change of pace because I tend to rush into the physical part and that leaves me kinda bored after a few weeks.
Anyway, she is really attractive, great body and she is pretty. Kind of a mystery why she is available (from a physical standpoint). But her personality doesn't really match mine and she is too into her looks (she wears a lot of makeup, which I don't like).
I picked her up this past Saturday night to go out to dinner. Fifth date, I think. When she got into my car, she brought a cup of Bailey's Irish cream with her, which I thought was weird, b/c we're not in college or barely removed from college and I don't believe she is an alcoholic. I am kind of anal about my car and keeping it clean b/c I am leasing it. I tell her "okay, just don't spill it" but I'm sort of annoyed that she brought it with her, b/c who does that on a date?
We have a good time at dinner and she drinks a martini.
I'm dropping her off at her house and she is getting her stuff together and she puts the drink (which still has a little left, even though it's been about two hours since I picked her up) between her knees. Then she says "oops" or something and I don't think anything of it. We have a brief kiss and she goes to her house.
I pull into my garage and what do you know, she spilled her drink on the seat (not leather) and there is a stain. I have had the car for two years, no stains.
This text exchange ensues right after I notice the stain:
Her: Thank you for dinner and drinks. Goodnight.
Me: You spilled your drink on the seat.
Her: sorry. Did it come out? Wanted to make sure nobody sits there
Me: No and it looks terrible.
Her: Really? Is it still wet?
Me: Yeah.
Her: Take a picture please. How do you know it was baileys?
Me: There was no stain on the seat before I picked you up.
Her: Smh. I was trying to be funny. Like I could have been wet. lol.
Me: You weren't wearing a skirt. Whatever. I'll get over it. But I told you not to spill your drink.
Her: I thought I finished it off. Calm down. It will come off.
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This last text annoyed me b/c she KNEW that she had spilled it but didn't say anything. I think that is really inconsiderate.
Me: I'm calm.
Her: I'm sure there is a car fabric cleaner I can get.
Me: Okay that would be good.
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the next morning.....
Me: Good morning.
Her: Good morning.
(several hours later)
Her: What kind of fabric is it and what is your mailing address please?
Me: Don't worry about it.
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I'm done with this girl. We didn't have enough in common and maybe I overreacted/was too sensitive but I thought she was pretty crappy with the way she handled it.
Your thoughts?
I met a woman (mid 30s) through a mutual friend and we hung out a few times. She came over to my place twice. We haven't slept together or gotten naked, which was frustrating but also sort of a refreshing change of pace because I tend to rush into the physical part and that leaves me kinda bored after a few weeks.
Anyway, she is really attractive, great body and she is pretty. Kind of a mystery why she is available (from a physical standpoint). But her personality doesn't really match mine and she is too into her looks (she wears a lot of makeup, which I don't like).
I picked her up this past Saturday night to go out to dinner. Fifth date, I think. When she got into my car, she brought a cup of Bailey's Irish cream with her, which I thought was weird, b/c we're not in college or barely removed from college and I don't believe she is an alcoholic. I am kind of anal about my car and keeping it clean b/c I am leasing it. I tell her "okay, just don't spill it" but I'm sort of annoyed that she brought it with her, b/c who does that on a date?
We have a good time at dinner and she drinks a martini.
I'm dropping her off at her house and she is getting her stuff together and she puts the drink (which still has a little left, even though it's been about two hours since I picked her up) between her knees. Then she says "oops" or something and I don't think anything of it. We have a brief kiss and she goes to her house.
I pull into my garage and what do you know, she spilled her drink on the seat (not leather) and there is a stain. I have had the car for two years, no stains.
This text exchange ensues right after I notice the stain:
Her: Thank you for dinner and drinks. Goodnight.
Me: You spilled your drink on the seat.
Her: sorry. Did it come out? Wanted to make sure nobody sits there
Me: No and it looks terrible.
Her: Really? Is it still wet?
Me: Yeah.
Her: Take a picture please. How do you know it was baileys?
Me: There was no stain on the seat before I picked you up.
Her: Smh. I was trying to be funny. Like I could have been wet. lol.
Me: You weren't wearing a skirt. Whatever. I'll get over it. But I told you not to spill your drink.
Her: I thought I finished it off. Calm down. It will come off.
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This last text annoyed me b/c she KNEW that she had spilled it but didn't say anything. I think that is really inconsiderate.
Me: I'm calm.
Her: I'm sure there is a car fabric cleaner I can get.
Me: Okay that would be good.
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the next morning.....
Me: Good morning.
Her: Good morning.
(several hours later)
Her: What kind of fabric is it and what is your mailing address please?
Me: Don't worry about it.
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I'm done with this girl. We didn't have enough in common and maybe I overreacted/was too sensitive but I thought she was pretty crappy with the way she handled it.
Your thoughts?
You have mutual friends? They will certainly hear of this exchange and judge you for it, lol.
