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12-01-2016 , 06:48 PM
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Originally Posted by amazinmets73
Considering that horse riding is animal exploitation, I'd hesitate to call equestrians animal lovers
Farming vegetables kills animals too you know. Vegetarians and vegans who don't grow their own veggies are animal killers!!!
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12-02-2016 , 05:32 AM
Matched with this Tinder girl and things escalated quickly, she made it clear she was just looking for something physical

Got her number and we make plans for her to come over a few days later

She shows up and I'm a little nervous because I usually don't get this kind of opportunity. We chat on the couch for a couple minutes and then she asks if I'm nervous and why we're just watching TV

We start making out and she asks to go to my bedroom

Pretty quickly we're naked and start going at it

Almost instantly she says "I don't feel anything"

I remind her that this is just a physical thing and she doesn't need to "feel" anything for me

She says something like "no I'm serious, I don't feel anything"

By now I am just cracking up that this girl is talking about feelings

She tells me to keep going and we finish up

We laid in bed chatting for 10-15 minutes and then she left

Just wondering what this girl was thinking to come straight to my place and then start talking about feelings

Also wanted to make a fairly obvious brag post
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12-02-2016 , 05:47 AM
Might not be a brag iykwim
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12-02-2016 , 06:02 AM
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Originally Posted by SeeTheMirage
Almost instantly she says "I don't feel anything"

She says something like "no I'm serious, I don't feel anything"
Sick beat. It reads as you were trying to throw a hotdog down a hallway.
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12-02-2016 , 06:39 AM
Yeah, how is this even slightly a brag...
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12-02-2016 , 06:53 AM
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Originally Posted by PocketInfinities
Sick beat. It reads as you were trying to throw a hotdog down a hallway.


Agreed. That's how I took it's well.


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12-02-2016 , 06:56 AM
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Originally Posted by SGT RJ
IDK, if your profile pic is bad enough you may not even get a response.

Like it or not, online dating is very much visual. Like the pic, click on the profile. Hate the pic, dismiss out of hand.

There's that middle ground where the pic is okay but not great or maybe sort of hard to make out so maybe you look at the pics to see if there are anything better, but no one wants to do more work than absolutely necessary when weeding people out. Pic is usually the very first impression. Should be the best you think you can do.


Solid advice here. Profile pic def. needs to be your best. It's going to be make or break a very good majority of the time.


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12-02-2016 , 08:40 AM
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Originally Posted by The X-Factor
Agreed. That's how I took it's well.


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Same. Or that she was not subtly telling him he needed to Google how to find a clitoris.
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12-02-2016 , 09:07 AM
Girl from Tinder opened me when she was lonely and drunk on Thanksgiving, but I was out of town so we ended up texting a lot. She described herself as hobbit sized and said people use her as an armrest at bars. Turns out she's 4'9" ~100 lbs, definitely the shortest/smallest I've dated. She was good at texting convo and helping set up the plans, but was soft spoken and seemed guarded in person. If she didn't hang around for three hours on a work night, I would have no indication she was interested.

I wonder what sex would be like with someone that size. Especially considering my 230 pounds of fatness and slightly above average dick. She was cute and kinda curvy for her size, but felt tiny next to me on the walk back. Unfortunately I get the read she's the type to make a guy wait a while and hasn't had too many partners.
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12-02-2016 , 09:11 AM
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Originally Posted by SeeTheMirage
Matched with this Tinder girl and things escalated quickly, she made it clear she was just looking for something physical


Also wanted to make a fairly obvious brag post
Always nice to find a girl who lives the Tinder stereotype. Send dick pics to RJ to confirm/deny hot dog status.

As for citanul's claim, there's a woman in East Texas who's not looking for anything serious.She can verify whether or not you stepped up your sex game.
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12-02-2016 , 09:16 AM
That's a level, boys.
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12-02-2016 , 09:25 AM
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Originally Posted by SeeTheMirage
Matched with this Tinder girl and things escalated quickly, she made it clear she was just looking for something physical

Got her number and we make plans for her to come over a few days later

She shows up and I'm a little nervous because I usually don't get this kind of opportunity. We chat on the couch for a couple minutes and then she asks if I'm nervous and why we're just watching TV

We start making out and she asks to go to my bedroom

Pretty quickly we're naked and start going at it

Almost instantly she says "I don't feel anything"

I remind her that this is just a physical thing and she doesn't need to "feel" anything for me

She says something like "no I'm serious, I don't feel anything"

By now I am just cracking up that this girl is talking about feelings

She tells me to keep going and we finish up

We laid in bed chatting for 10-15 minutes and then she left

Just wondering what this girl was thinking to come straight to my place and then start talking about feelings

Also wanted to make a fairly obvious brag post
Umm....she wasn't talking about her feelings lol
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12-02-2016 , 09:41 AM
Zing
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12-02-2016 , 11:43 AM
Got two notifications this morning that I matched with a friend on Tinder AND Tinder Social, go to look at my matches, she's on neither, then she comes up as Super-Liking me an hour later, swipe right, still doesn't show up in my matches
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12-02-2016 , 11:53 AM
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Originally Posted by Burdzthewurd
Got two notifications this morning that I matched with a friend on Tinder AND Tinder Social, go to look at my matches, she's on neither, then she comes up as Super-Liking me an hour later, swipe right, still doesn't show up in my matches
1st World Problems
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12-02-2016 , 12:24 PM
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Originally Posted by ligastar
1st World Problems
Maybe she stopped feeling anything
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12-02-2016 , 06:09 PM
Spam accounts can trigger a notification and then be deleted before you get the chance to check out who you were matched with.
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12-02-2016 , 07:53 PM
I'm dead inside!
I'm dead inside!

Isn't great dirty talk ime
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12-02-2016 , 07:57 PM
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Originally Posted by Fossilkid93
Spam accounts can trigger a notification and then be deleted before you get the chance to check out who you were matched with.
spam accounts always instantly message you after you match with them

real people never message you

I replied back just to see what the point was and they wanted me to skype. https://www.reddit.com/r/Scams/comme...blackmailed_i/

LOL
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12-02-2016 , 11:39 PM
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Originally Posted by Fossilkid93
Spam accounts can trigger a notification and then be deleted before you get the chance to check out who you were matched with.
It was a friend I know IRL that is definitely on Tinder, so unlikely to be a spam
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12-03-2016 , 01:30 AM
An ugly person with a good profile pic is still an ugly person.
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12-03-2016 , 02:23 AM
But if you hit your angles right, you can get rejected after a first date instead!
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12-03-2016 , 02:27 AM
So the uglies can spend money and lose confidence.
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12-03-2016 , 03:40 PM
Things starting to pick up a bit since my post from 8 days ago. I have first dates set up for Tuesday and Friday nights (1 from Meetic and 1 from Happn, the first 2 that were the result of dating sites and not the conversation exchange sites), I'm going to the Champions League match Wednesday, and am going for a walk thru the Christmas market with a cute Italian/French girl over the weekend.

I'll also fit in a couple hours with FWB A, who is freakin' amazing. She texts the perfect amount (maybe 4-5 texts total per week) and says amazing stuff in French like "oui, oui, tu l'as trouvé" (yes, yes, you found it!) Brag: feelings. Nothing is hotter than hearing sex talk in French imo. I also saw another girl, FWB B, for the 2nd time today. The sex is good, but she's also annoying with her texting and wanting to linger around far too long. She knows it's just a FWB relationship, but she still tries to text multiple times daily.

Anyway, seeing FWBs is better than nothing, but I also get a bit sad when the sex is over and cuddling with my FWB b/c while I care about them, I find myself wishing it was with someone I deeply cared about and saw a future with. So I'm hoping some of these first dates start to pan out a bit.

My semester of language school from hell ends Dec. 16 and I have a 5 week break and am then switching to Alliance Française for the 2nd semester. So I should have much more time for dating. GL me!

If JLBorloo or anyone with experience online dating both French and Anglo girls is around, I'd love to her their take on messaging French girls. It's like pulling teeth compared to Anglo girls, they usually just avoid all humor and rarely seem to open up.
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12-03-2016 , 03:45 PM
Do the girls ever ask you to speak English to them (American accent) in the same way an American woman would want a French guy speaking to them?
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