It's called cuckqueening then, I think. Rarer but a thing.

Cucking is a humiliation thing. Hotwifing is a "my wife is so hot everyone wants to **** her and she's mine but I'll be magnanimous and share so they know how awesome she is and how awesome I am by extension" thing.

I don't "get" cucking either in the sense that it wouldn't do anything for me, but I know the psychology of it.

Ya this is kind of the way I think. I probably wouldn't do it. But its just a random chick.

But if you aren't going to do it, would you tell the husband? Maybe anonymously?

Might be fun to put it on her facebook,but probably illegal as hell.

How are people using tinder social? One of my coworkers was saying he had some success with a buddy. My thinking is it could lead to a bunch of easy meet ups with minimal time investment/effort.

Reluctantly and with a detached air of condescension

That's something I've seen with women,they let their boyfriend bang her friends,and get attention either by griping about what a cheater he is,or the girlfriends all are envious of her since they know what she's getting on the reg.

Had one male friend get to do this,he would bang one of his girlfriends acquaintances for her birthday,or a divorce,even her sister got some.

At first he thought it was great,but then he said it felt like he was being used.
I said "how"? He said sometimes he wasn't attracted to the other women,and his girlfriend wouldn't join in or even be there,so he felt pimped out.
So he cheated on her and they broke up.

Wat? I am confused. He insisted that he got to bang the girlfriends or he would divorce her? Or the wife told him to do it?

A++ reading comprehension

he had sex with gfs friends when it was their bday or they got divorced

asked out this cute girl today after finally having a moment alone with her. she was a little awkward about it (she's 20), said she has a boyfriend.

i'm a lil bummed out, but super happy that for once i took the +ev route rather than letting time run out until hand gets auto mucked.


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In a true hotwife/hot husband scenario jealousy isn't a factor, unless some other factors like emotional or sexual boundaries are crossed.

But suffice to say not all "cheating" is really cheating, and a lot of couples who have some allowances aren't open because it's more socially acceptable to be perceived as monogamous.

Again, not to say that you should sleep with a married man/woman, due diligence and all that. Or you just don't want to have sex with someone else's partner. Different strokes.

Decided i'm not going to pursue the married woman. I knew from the start I was morally opposed to it but started thinking "if not me, she'll find someone else, so why not me?" but I guess it's like anything else, I can't prevent her from cheating with someone else but I can do my part to not be involved in it.

Someone mentioned trying to contact the husband which had also crossed my mind. Pretty sure I can find this girls FB which should lead me to the husband. Still, that's going to create a lot of drama in my life that I don't need right now, think I will just forget this happened unless you guys overwhelmingly believe I should take one for the team and let him know

Not your business

This is pretty common practice, tons of people try to "network" way too hard on LinkedIn. LOL for thinking this lady wanted your cock, not a job or your money.


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Yeah, I wouldn't attempt to locate the husband.

I've discovered a good way to get LinkedIn recruiters off my case is to ask them out!

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Is this actually a camp?

One elite piece of feedback I got in Brazil was that the women there consistently think American dudes take FOREVER to make a move. Even if they don't like the guy they want him to try.

I decided that screw it I was going to attempt a kiss reasonably early in a date, every date, regardless of what country/culture my date was from.

Single best thing I've learned. If done right there's really no downside. Have had several women say that's the first time a dude has done that to them mid-first date, and the success rate is quite high. And when it fails it's still good for a number of reasons.

Feeler peck?

All I hear from women nowadays is they want a guy who is "emotionally intelligent" - part of this is having empathy and being able to read signals when she is open to you making a move.

I think this move does show a lot of confidence, but I equally it can probably be a huge red light for some women.

However, I also think there are huge social and cultural issues here so you can't generalise. Latinos are generally much more tactile than Northern or Eastern Europeans, for example.

I mean if the date is going well I don't see a problem going for a kiss mid date rather than at the end. Presumably he's not just planting one if the date's a bust from the get go.

I can't imagine talking before kissing

It goes
1. Intense eye contact that is broken and repeated as other social obligations cause you to move around
2. Making out
3. Talking about sex
4. Sex
5. Breakfast
6. Never seeing them again

Yeah there's zero ambush. And it's not forced. There's plenty of time for a pull away or cheek and I abort quickly to avoid them feeling awkward. It's not like they can't see a kiss coming once it starts. Sometimes I'll have a playful lead in, depends on the situation.

It works best, by far, with USA women fwiw.

Avoiding at all reasonable cost a situation where you are sitting directly across from them with a table in-between helps a great deal.

"It's easy to make friends! Go around telling women you love them and then they'll say 'let's just be friends.'"

Only if you're weird about it. This goes for all levels of physical escalation. Don't be the guy who throws a tantrum or tries to cajole or logic his way into kiss/bj/sex and you're totally fine.

I found myself hanging out of the back of a girl within 5 mins of meeting them, and that was purely down to reading the situation.

However, generally, I think discretion is the better part of valor.