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08-29-2016 , 02:30 AM
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Originally Posted by AnonymousTextField
SHe immediately heads to her bed and passes out, mumbling something about a concern that I ruphied her. WTF? We get her a bucket and she pukes.
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Originally Posted by AnonymousTextField
If anything, she raped me.
9/10, would lol again
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08-29-2016 , 02:34 AM
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Originally Posted by Eeyorefora
Do you hear yourself?

It could be argued she changed her mind,but once she passed out and her roommate gave you the go ahead,that can be considered creepy behavior.

And look,I've been in similar situations,but once she passes out,I'm not going any further.
And I'm not going to ask her roommate for permission,no telling what ulterior motive he might have.
Not saying its wrong,but I'm not sure it was OK.
Do I hear myself? Dude, I'm not going to rape or force myself on a woman. Period. It was completely consensual, she thoroughly enjoyed it, asked for more and didn't want me to leave when I did. Is that date rape?

Additionally, BFF asked her if she was okay with me staying. He also **** tested me at one point, suggesting that I should get an UBER, which I was fine with.
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08-29-2016 , 02:57 AM
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Originally Posted by AnonymousTextField
He also **** tested me at one point, suggesting that I should get an UBER, which I was fine with.
Guys, in light of this new information I'm sure you can all agree you're sounding pretty silly and should apologize to ATF immediately.
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08-29-2016 , 03:00 AM
ATF,

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Look at it this way, how does one get date-rapey with a woman when her roommate and best male friend is within earshot and is completely comfortable with me checking out for the evening in her bed?

Good point. As long as her male roommate says it's cool to jump in her bed and **** the drunk to the point of puking and passing out woman, can't see how anyone would ever question that level of clear consent. My bad!
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08-29-2016 , 03:07 AM
But that sounded like a sketchy spot to be in,honestly,can't you see how from your description it sounds bad?
Your not making it much better if you say the roommate suggested you leave.
It then can be construed that he got exasperated with trying to get you to leave,and gave up,figuring you were her problem and just left the situation,saying"go ahead and just poke her".
Maybe she's a raging alkie and ends up like this all the time and he's tired of dealing with it.

Like I said,I can see how it could be seen as creepy or rapey from an outsider's pov or a courtroom.
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08-29-2016 , 03:39 AM
ATF not saying it was date rapey or whatever, I don't care. I am wondering how the date doesn't end when you get to her place and she's ill. How/why did you go inside? Why didn't you uber home or just leave when she passed out, instead you jump in her bed? Those are some weird circumstances regardless of the consensual sex you had later.
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08-29-2016 , 03:43 AM
Lolz,

Well, when a woman you just met pukes and passes out, mumbling something about being roofied by you, obviously the natural reaction is to think about how to **** her that night!
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08-29-2016 , 04:08 AM
El D, 4T, Eye,

wtf is wrong with you people? ATF clearly stated her roommate **** tested him by asking if he should get an uber and that he was fine with it. Just drop it jfc
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08-29-2016 , 08:37 AM
ATF,

I don't know what date-rapey means or implies, but this seems like rape to me, what the hell.

The facts as you stated are pretty clear. The girl was drunk, "visibily intoxicated", "speaking with a slur", "kind of swaying", "feels sick", "immediately heads to her bed and passes out", "mumbling something about a concern that I ruphied her", "pukes".

These are all signals for healthy people that this person is not capable of consenting.

The excuse(?) that her male friend said you could go and sleep with her is the craziest thing I've ever heard. 'It wasn't rape, her friend said it was okay'.

I'm hoping this is a troll of some sorts, because this is really messed up.
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08-29-2016 , 08:54 AM
Man fake lawyers invading all the threads these days.
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08-29-2016 , 09:06 AM
ATF, omg....does she even remember the sex?

You need to watch this:
http://youtu.be/oQbei5JGiT8
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08-29-2016 , 09:14 AM
what's even the point of the argument when clearly she was ok with it?

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We're setting up a second date.
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08-29-2016 , 09:15 AM
She could have set up a second date not realizing that he date raped her the night before.
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08-29-2016 , 09:32 AM
Good job posting incriminating evidence against yourself ITT ATF

Now we are all accessories
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08-29-2016 , 10:22 AM
how much time has to pass after a girl pukes/passes out for sexual intercourse with her not to be rape?

Last edited by skillgambler; 08-29-2016 at 10:22 AM. Reason: asking for a friend
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08-29-2016 , 10:27 AM
till she's sober
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08-29-2016 , 10:30 AM
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Originally Posted by Ispitan
what's even the point of the argument when clearly she was ok with it?
Thank you. Finally someone with a little sense of persepctive.

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Originally Posted by MeLoveYouLongTime
She could have set up a second date not realizing that he date raped her the night before.
I just told her that the consensus is that I date raped her and asked her how she feels about it. She loved it. Thanks for the fodder, boys.
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08-29-2016 , 10:45 AM
whew. she's fine with it? cool, i guess your thought process and actions weren't creepy at all and should not change the way you operate!
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08-29-2016 , 10:57 AM
ATF,

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Originally Posted by AnonymousTextField
Look at it this way, how does one get date-rapey with a woman when her roommate and best male friend is within earshot and is completely comfortable with me checking out for the evening in her bed?

Sorry, missed this part in your post. Now that you clarified that her best male friend said it was fine to **** her, of course it's totally cool.
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08-29-2016 , 10:59 AM
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Originally Posted by trigstarr
whew. she's fine with it? cool, i guess your thought process and actions weren't creepy at all and should not change the way you operate!
Way to move the goal posts. She had 3.5 drinks over the course 5 hours. I kicked it with her roommate / BFF for two hours at her place while she recovered. I offered to leave, she wanted me to stay. My intention was not sex, actually, but to avoid driving home that late or having to take an UBER and one back the next morning to retrieve my car. The bed seemed like the most comfortable option and no one had a problem with it, except the squares here. When we started fooling around she initiated it, and by that time she was borderline sober and totally coherent.

Get a grip, brah.
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08-29-2016 , 11:01 AM
Recent thread developments deliver.
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08-29-2016 , 11:09 AM
Dude are you really that dense?

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ATF,

Sorry, missed this part in your post. Now that you clarified that her best male friend said it was fine to **** her, of course it's totally cool.
Her BFF asked her privately what she wants me to do, explaining that I offered to bounce.

She. Wanted. Me. To. Stay.

She. Wanted. To. ****. Me.

She. Wanted. To. ****. Me. The. Entire. Date.

**** man, she started reaching into my shorts and grabbing my dick at the last bar we were at. She wanted the cock. Bad. She actually apologized repeatedly for puking, saying she didn't want to "**** this up." In fact the BFF told me I was easily the coolest, most chill OKC guy that he's shook down on her behalf.
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08-29-2016 , 11:10 AM
Haha squares, been a while since I saw that expression ITT. atf delivers as usual.
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08-29-2016 , 11:19 AM
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08-29-2016 , 11:45 AM
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