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Originally Posted by rafiki
This is one of the 3 falsest things I've ever read on 2p2, and ranks up there with "the moon landing was faked" in terms of crazyness. I typed up an actual paragraph to try to disprove your claim, then realize how absurd it is to even defend this point. You're so far off the mark.
My writing skills sucks,English is my second language.
My wing Chris posted this on pua forum. The guy is really ****ing good maybe you can understand it
better.
Key 1 Vibing is the key to infinite conversation, when guys have a problem with what to say next they are struggling with vibing. The biggest reason guys are stuck in their head is because they are filtering out what to say in order to impress the girl. This brings us to key number one in vibing: “Lower the Bar”. We all have a lifetime of unique experiences, it’s not like you were born yesterday. You have so much to talk about; the problem is you’re setting such a high standard for what to say that you forget about these things. You have to understand that when women connect, it’s not based on the context. It doesn’t matter if you’re talking about your favorite cereal or your cool trip to Brazil. They connect through emotion, they relate to you through the enthusiasm and passion that you bring. A cool guy can take a boring topic like the weather, and turn it into the most interesting conversation you’ve ever had. The chode says: “It's so hot outside; I wish it wasn’t so hot. This sucks.” Boring! The cool guy says: “It's so HOT outside. HEY let’s take our clothes off, and go STREAKING!” Awesome! It’s not what you say, it’s the way you say it. Lower the bar, you can talk about anything as long as you say it with passion.
Key 2 This brings us to key number two in vibing: “Self Amusement”. When you’re conversing with a woman, talk about things that you enjoy and think are cool. Talk about your favorite dinosaur, why you hate lemons, why you love Miami, why you love the show Dexter, why you hate peanut butter. When people think of self amusement, they assume it has to be jumping around like a madman and screaming like a banshee. Those are all forms of it, but self amusement is also casually talking about things you enjoy. It's not going to spike your state like the others, but you will notice that the more you talk about your interests the more present you become. The more you entertain yourself with your conversational threads, the easier the words fall out your mouth. Chodes modify their topics to accomodate the girl, they're talking to pump up her state. You don't modify ****, you're talking because you like to hear the sound of your voice. You're pumping your own state, the only purpose of the conversation is to get you excited.
Am I doing it right?You will know when you're vibing, your mouth won’t stop moving and every word that comes out amuses you even more. It’s a nonstop flow of energy. Because you’re so focused on entertaining yourself, you won’t even be aware of the girl’s reactions. You’ll hear a giggle here and there but because you only care about how you feel, her reactions are irrelevant. This is your movie, you are the star and she is the spectator. Of course, you also want to be leading and escalating while you're doing this, and eventually you want to get her to invest. Its very easy, simply shut up while locking eye contact to put the pressure on her. She will most likely break the silence with chode questions like: "Where are you from", from here you can sit back and let her do the gaming.