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Originally Posted by Gaddy
Part of it was certainly that I had never lived with a woman on a full-time basis before, liked my freedom and didn't want to rush into that. But another part that made it easier is that she had a good job 50 miles away. So we would focus on work during the week and then take the train to spend each weekend together. Living together has gone well so far, though. I've always preferred sleeping alone, but I'm getting more used to not doing so. We're not bothering each other too much, and there's definitely some perks in that she's a pretty good cook. Plus with our combined incomes we were able to get an apartment on the 25th floor of a luxury highrise in downtown LA, the sort of place I could only dream about before, and yet I'm still paying a couple hundred a month less in rent.
Yeah, that definitely makes sense. Can also understand why you guys took it slow given the work situation.
Reason I was curious was it seems to usually come up sometime between the 1-2 year mark.
In my case, we moved in together closer to the year mark as my thinking was I want to have kids while I'm still youngish, so it was important for me to find out if the relationship had life-time partner potential or not. We've been living together now a bit over a year and I can say it was one of the best decisions we ever made and has worked out great for us as we are getting married in 3.5 months.
Obviously, there were some small adjustment at first, but like you said there are many perks. Most importantly, in my case, it brought our relationship to an entirely new level and confirmed for me I found the one for me.