I've pretty much stopped messaging girls for the time being....I have two balls in the air, and am inclined to see how they shake out (hmm...I guess that's a pretty egregious mixed metaphor).
The first one is the girl I went on a 3rd date with on Thursday. The concert was great, although I managed to drop pizza in my lap during dinner beforehand. This girl has been alternately acting very skittish and totally in love with me. She has been texting me everyday, and we planned to go out again early this week, but I just heard last night that she has to fly to Poland tomorrow to see her sick grandmother (she had told me on Thursday that the grandmother has just had a stroke, but seem to be recovering). So I won't see her again for another week at least; I will talk to her on the phone tonight.
The second is a girl who lives in Memphis and is flying to St. Louis to visit me on Thursday. We've had two lengthy phone conversation, and she is a flight attendant, so she can fly for free and insists this is easy for her. She messaged me first, and said I had the "best thing ever written in an online dating profile". I asked how she found my profile, and she said she always searches with no location filter.
It sounds like we'll be spending two days together. I'm really unsure how this will play out...she's both very liberal and also rather Christian, and seemed from her profile unlikely to sleep with anyone she didn't know well. She had originally suggested staying in a hotel while visiting...I said she should stay with me, and she readily agree when I told her I had a sofa bed.
She's
really cute though, and surprisingly smart and interesting from our conversations. I'm not sure how this would work logistically in the longer-term though.
One minor annoyance...Match just auto-renewed me for 3 months for $60. I probably would have renewed anyway, but I think I could have gotten it much cheaper had I been paying attention.
Finally, I had a strange religious discussion over text yesterday with the cocktail waitress I went out with 2 weeks ago. She said she "had the worst hangover ever and just found god again". Didn't think it was possible to get friend-zoned while online dating, but I suppose I was wrong.
Last edited by NickMPK; 02-04-2013 at 07:54 PM.