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I'm in the camp she went on tinder to specifically see if I was on it, or the last time I was on it. Personally I could give two ****s if she was on it playing around, swiping, she owes me nothing the same way I owe her nothing.

And yes she clearly used the word ACCIDENTALLY which I laughed at inside as she was telling me the story.

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12-03-2014 , 02:57 AM

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wait a second .. she was accessing your Tinder on your smartphone?

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12-03-2014 , 03:05 AM

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I'm not a crazy person. How did you interpret that out of what I said...

Like said above if you've matched with someone and neither has unmatched the other you can go to their profile and check the last time they were active on the app.

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12-03-2014 , 06:16 AM

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thx for explanation .. i've never used tinder

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12-03-2014 , 11:13 AM

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So the same girl texts me this morning and said someone posted her SnapChat name to reddit and she has had about 100 dick pics sent to her this morning. Apparently whoever the dude is sent her a snap of a shirt saying I'll cut you with scissors then she blocked him and I guess he did that. Jesus Christ. At least that means I don't have to sweat exclusivity I guess. She claims she met him on tinder but only messaged a few times. A few times enough to give him your number or snap name? Girl is crazy.

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12-03-2014 , 11:51 AM

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Although the whole tinder thing in your earlier post was shady, how do you summarize this last incident with "girl is crazy?" The guy is the crazy one. It's pretty standard to exchange contact info after a few msgs on tinder.

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12-03-2014 , 12:10 PM

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+1.

Also, when I was using tinder I often came across profiles that included their instagram or snapchat user names right in the about me section.

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12-03-2014 , 12:23 PM

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Tell her to change her snapchat settings to receive snaps from friends only. Easy fix

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12-03-2014 , 01:11 PM

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Little things adding up and not just the sliver of stories I'm sharing lead me to lean she may be a little crazy. I'm just lumping my thoughts together on here. I'm seeing her tonight so yea, should be fun.

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12-03-2014 , 01:18 PM

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I like to imagine she just kept opening snaps from people she didn't know and was shocked every time it was a dick pic. Like if I got a hundred snaps from people I didn't know I would open the first, see it was a dick, and then not open the rest assuming they would be the same.

I wouldn't keep opening.

I imagine she's exaggerating the number but did she really keep opening them? Lulzy to imagine

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12-03-2014 , 01:22 PM

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Maybe she likes dick picks

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12-03-2014 , 01:29 PM

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+1.

Also, when I was using tinder I often came across profiles that included their instagram or snapchat user names right in the about me section.

That's because they're trying to gain followers.

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12-03-2014 , 04:57 PM

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and dick pics

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12-04-2014 , 12:13 AM

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I'm on work travel in Knoxville this week, and it's opened my eyes to how easy Tinder is for you guys who live in medium-sized cities. Big ones seem too hit-or-miss (i.e. what are the odds that the girls you see actually see you?), and little cities like my home give so few options that it's barely even worth using.

That being said, there are way more fatties to weed through.

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12-04-2014 , 01:28 AM

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The poly person decided I'm not for her. After I asked, essentially, is this happening or not.

All I was looking for was a spot in the rotation.

She treated it all or nothing. Poly. Mmmmk.

We'll be friends, I'm not butthurt. I might get a referral.

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12-04-2014 , 10:04 AM

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BBB has pulled a Houdini the last couple days. We are supposed to go out tonight, but I assume that's not happening.

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12-04-2014 , 12:01 PM

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BBB has pulled a Houdini the last couple days. We are supposed to go out tonight, but I assume that's not happening.

She was kind enough to send cancellation notice this morning. Such a sweetheart.

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12-04-2014 , 12:15 PM

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She was kind enough to send cancellation notice this morning. Such a sweetheart.

I had one do that in the summer and I pretty much told her I appreciated the heads up and wished her luck. Did this since I considered she just wasn't up for it anymore as is almost always the case when this happens. She then proceeds to claim that wasn't the case, she did still want to get together, so we tentatively set up another day and then I never heard from her again LOL.

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12-04-2014 , 12:23 PM

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I sent her a good luck, but I don't know why I bothered. Pointless

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12-04-2014 , 12:28 PM

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Fail. You have two options for responses:

1. Gay

2. Who's this?

They both show you are not salty and a well adjusted adult

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12-04-2014 , 12:29 PM

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lame is the only legit response.

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12-04-2014 , 12:31 PM

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I sent her a good luck, but I don't know why I bothered. Pointless

I agree it's kind of pointless, but I always got a bit of enjoyment out of pretty much letting them know you are aware of their shenanigans and they aren't fooling anyone.