Quote:
Originally Posted by NickMPK
Ugh....I am so sick of online dating right now. The problem is that online dating makes it so much easier for socially awkward people like me to get first dates, but obviously doesn't really help from that point on. I moved to a new city where I didnt know anyone about 3 months ago, and have had 15-20 first dates since then, mostly through OKC, but a total of 3 second dates.
The really frustrating thing is I had two good relationships come out of my first 4 online dates back in my previous city. I guess I figured it would only get easier...
So what's your goal? Do you want 3 f*** buddies or a girlfriend? I've been going out at least 2 times/week for a year and I still **** up some dates.
About 5 months ago I had 4 dates in a row from Thu to Sunday. Guess what: never saw any of them again.
You have to be polarizing ,they either love you or ****ing hate you.
You don't want to waste your time going on 4 dates with a girl only to find out you were friend zoned.
If your socially awkward go out with your friends more, step out of your comfort zone.
Tell the girl when you first meet her,be like "actually I don't do this a lot I've been raised in Antarctica by the penguins just got here last week" something like that.
This sets the frame that you're being yourself and you will f*** up later but you don't care. You will getaway with a lot.